Sunday, November 26, 2006

Family Code of the Philippines: Primer on marriage

Update as of April 25, 2018:

“SC recognizes divorce in marriage with foreigners”
(Rappler)



The Supreme Court (SC) en banc issued a landmark ruling on Tuesday, April 24, recognizing divorce in marriages with foreigners.

Voting 10-3-1, the SC en banc ruled “that a foreign divorce secured by a Filipino against a foreign spouse is also considered valid in the Philippines, even if it is the Filipino spouse who files for divorce abroad.”

“Republic of the Philippines v. Marelyn Tanedo Manalo” G.R. No. 221029. April 24, 2018

Based on a clear and plain reading of paragraph 2 of Article 26 (Family Code), the provision only requires that there be a divorce validly obtained abroad. The letter of the law does not demand that the alien spouse should be the one who initiated the proceedings wherein the divorce decree was granted. It does not distinguish whether the Filipino spouse is the petitioner or the respondent in the foreign divorce proceeding.”

Related posts:

1. If husband and wife have not seen each other for more than seven years, does it mean their marriage is already void?

2. If a person gets married while his petition for declaration of nullity of his first marriage is ongoing, can he be charged with bigamy?

3. Quickie marriages under Article 34 of the Family Code: Is the marriage void if the affidavit of marital cohabitation is false?

4. Legal lessons from the Kris Aquino - James Yap breakup: legal separation, annulment, declaration of nullity, essential and formal requisites of marriage

5. Irreconcilable differences not a ground for declaring a marriage null and void

6. When a man is married to or living in with several women successively or simultaneously, who has the right to inherit from him?

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Starting this week, I will be posting primers on the various provisions of the Family Code of the Philippines. For this week, the primer is on the basic provisions on marriage, specifically Articles 1 to 34. Please surf over to Title I, Articles 1 to 54 which comprise the complete provisions of the Family Code on marriage.

You may also want to review my previous articles on “covenant marriage” and “divorce and remarriage” from the Philippine legal standpoint. I discussed these articles with pastors and workers who attended the Baptist Mission Partners symposium last week.

How does the Family Code define “marriage”?

Marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life. It is the foundation of the family and an inviolable social institution whose nature, consequences, and incidents are governed by law and not subject to stipulation, except that marriage settlements may fix the property relations during the marriage within the limits provided by this Code. (Article 1)

What are the essential requisites that make a marriage valid?

Republic of the Philippines vs. Liberty Albios, G.R. No. 198780, October 16, 2013

Issue:

Is a marriage, entered into for the sole purpose of acquiring American citizenship in exchange for $2,000, void on the ground of lack of consent?

Background facts:

Liberty Albios asked Daniel Lee Fringer to marry her so that she can acquire American citizenship. In return, Albios promised to give Fringer $2,000. After the wedding, they went their separate ways. Fringer returned to the United States and never again communicated with Albios. In turn, Albios did not pay Fringer the $2,000 because he never processed her petition for citizenship.

Regional Trial Court rules that Albios and Fringer’s marriage is void for lack of consent

Albios filed with the Regional Trial Court a petition for declaration of nullity of her marriage with Fringer. She described their marriage as made in jest and, therefore, null and void ab initio (from the start). The RTC ruled that the essential requisite of consent was lacking and that when marriage was entered into for a purpose other than the establishment of a conjugal and family life, the marriage was a farce.

Court of Appeals affirms RTC ruling

The Court of Appeals affirmed the RTC ruling that the essential requisite of consent was lacking. The CA stated that Albios and Fringer clearly did not understand the nature and consequence of getting married and that their case was similar to a marriage in jest. It further explained that Albios and Fringer never intended to enter into the marriage contract and never intended to live as husband and wife or build a family. It concluded that their purpose was primarily for personal gain, that is, for Albios to obtain foreign citizenship, and for Fringer, the consideration of $2,000.

Supreme Court rules that the marriage is valid

Albios and Fringer’s marriage is not void ab initio (from the start) and continues to be valid and subsisting.

Consent was not lacking between Albios and Fringer. Their consent was conscious and intelligent as they understood the nature and the beneficial and inconvenient consequences of their marriage. Their consent was freely given as best evidenced by their conscious purpose of acquiring American citizenship through marriage. Such plainly demonstrates that they willingly and deliberately contracted the marriage.

Motives for entering into a marriage are varied and complex. The State does not and cannot dictate on the kind of life that a couple chooses to lead. Thus, marriages entered into for other purposes, limited or otherwise, such as convenience, companionship, money, status, and title, provided that they comply with all the legal requisites, are equally valid. Love, though the ideal consideration in a marriage contract, is not the only valid cause for marriage. Other considerations, not precluded by law, may validly support a marriage.

Albios has indeed made a mockery of the sacred institution of marriage. Allowing her marriage with Fringer to be declared void would only further trivialize this inviolable institution. The Court cannot declare such a marriage void in the event the parties fail to qualify for immigration benefits, after they have availed of its benefits, or simply have no further use for it. These unscrupulous individuals cannot be allowed to use the courts as instruments in their fraudulent schemes. Albios already misused a judicial institution to enter into a marriage of convenience; she should not be allowed to again abuse it to get herself out of an inconvenient situation.
Article 2 provides that a marriage is valid if these essential requisites are present:

(1) Legal capacity of the contracting parties who must be a male and a female; and

(2) Consent freely given in the presence of the solemnizing officer.

What are the formal requisites of marriage?

The formal requisites of marriage according to Article 3 are:

(1) Authority of the solemnizing officer;

(2) A valid marriage license except in the cases provided for in Chapter 2 of this Title; and

(3) A marriage ceremony which takes place with the appearance of the contracting parties before the solemnizing officer and their personal declaration that they take each other as husband and wife in the presence of not less than two witnesses of legal age.

What is the effect if an essential or formal requisite is absent?

The absence of any of the essential or formal requisites renders the marriage void ab initio, except as stated in Article 35 (2).

What is the effect if any of the essential requisites is defective?

A defect in any of the essential requisites does not affect the validity of the marriage but the party or parties responsible for the irregularity will be civilly, criminally and administratively liable.

What is the age at which a man or woman can get married?

Any male or female of the age of eighteen years or upwards not under any of the impediments mentioned in Articles 37 and 38, may contract marriage.

(Note: Before the Family Code became effective in August 3, 1988, the minimum age for marriage under the New Civil Code of the Philippines was 16 for men and 14 for women.)

Is there any prescribed form for the marriage ceremony?

No prescribed form or religious rite for the solemnization of the marriage is required. It is necessary, however, for the contracting parties to appear personally before the solemnizing officer and declare in the presence of not less than two witnesses of legal age that they take each other as husband and wife. This declaration must be contained in the marriage certificate which must be signed by the contracting parties and their witnesses and attested by the solemnizing officer.

If a party cannot sign the marriage certificate, what can be done?

In case of a marriage in articulo mortis, when the party at the point of death is unable to sign the marriage certificate, it is sufficient for one of the witnesses to the marriage to write the name of said party, which fact must be attested by the solemnizing officer.

Who are authorized to solemnize marriages?

Art. 7. Marriage may be solemnized by:

(1) Any incumbent member of the judiciary within the court's jurisdiction;

(2) Any priest, rabbi, imam, or minister of any church or religious sect duly authorized by his church or religious sect and registered with the civil registrar general, acting within the limits of the written authority granted by his church or religious sect and provided that at least one of the contracting parties belongs to the solemnizing officer's church or religious sect;

(3) Any ship captain or airplane chief only in the case mentioned in Article 31;

(4) Any military commander of a unit to which a chaplain is assigned, in the absence of the latter, during a military operation, likewise only in the cases mentioned in Article 32;

(5) Any consul-general, consul or vice-consul in the case provided in Article 10.

Note: The Local Government Code of 1991 restored to the mayors their authority to solemnize marriages

For Filipinos residing or traveling abroad and who want to get married, who can solemnize the marriage?

The consul-general, the consul, or vice-consul of the Republic of the Philippines can solemnize the marriage.

What can be done if upon applying for a marriage license, the parties cannot produce their birth certificates?

The presentation of birth or baptismal certificate is not required if the parents of the contracting parties appear personally before the local civil registrar concerned and swear to the correctness of the lawful age of the parties, as stated in the application, or when the local civil registrar is, by merely looking at the applicants upon their personally appearing before him, convinced that either or both of them have the required age. (Last paragraph, Article 12)

What are the requirements of the Local Civil Registrar if either of the contracting parties was previously married?

The previously married applicant must furnish, instead of the birth or baptismal certificate, the death certificate of the deceased spouse, or the judicial decree of the absolute divorce, or the judicial decree of annulment or declaration of nullity of the previous marriage.

In case the death certificate cannot be secured, the party must make an affidavit stating this circumstance, actual civil status, and the name and date of death of the deceased spouse. (Article 13)

What is the effectivity of the marriage license once issued?

The license is valid in any part of the Philippines for a period of one hundred twenty days from the date of issue, and it is automatically canceled at the expiration of the period if the contracting parties have not used it. The expiry date must be stamped in bold characters on the face of every license issued. (Article 20)

What are the requirements if a foreigner wants to get married here in the Philippines?

When either or both of the contracting parties are citizens of a foreign country, they must submit a certificate of legal capacity to contract marriage, issued by their respective diplomatic or consular officials, before a marriage license can be obtained.

Stateless persons or refugees from other countries must, instead of the certificate of legal capacity, submit an affidavit stating the circumstances showing their capacity to contract marriage. (Article 21)

What are the rules for marriages entered into by Filipinos in foreign countries?

All marriages solemnized outside the Philippines under the laws in force in the country where they were solemnized, and valid there as such, are also be valid in this country, except those prohibited under Articles 35 (1), (4), (5) and (6), 36, 37 and 38.

Where a marriage between a Filipino citizen and a foreigner is validly celebrated and a divorce is afterwards validly obtained abroad by the alien spouse capacitating him or her to remarry, the Filipino spouse has the capacity to remarry under Philippine law. (Article 26, as amended by Executive Order 227)

Under what circumstances will a marriage license no longer be required?

In case either or both of the contracting parties are at the point of death, the marriage may be solemnized without necessity of a marriage license and will remain valid even if the ailing party subsequently survives. (Article 27)

If the residence of either party is so located that there is no means of transportation to enable the party to appear personally before the local civil registrar, the marriage may be solemnized without necessity of a marriage license. (Article 28)

Marriages among Muslims or among members of the ethnic cultural communities may be performed validly without the necessity of marriage license, provided they are solemnized in accordance with their customs, rites or practices. (Article 33)

No license is necessary for the marriage of a man and a woman who have lived together as husband and wife for at least five years and without any legal impediment to marry each other. The contracting parties must state these facts in an affidavit before any person authorized by law to administer oaths. The solemnizing officer must also state under oath that he ascertained the qualifications of the contracting parties and found no legal impediment to the marriage. (Article 34; please read “Quickie marriages under Article 34 of the Family Code: Is the marriage void if the affidavit of marital cohabitation is false?”)

What are the rules for marriages performed by a ship captain or a pilot?

A marriage in articulo mortis between passengers or crew members may also be solemnized by a ship captain or by an airplane pilot not only while the ship is at sea or the plane is in flight, but also during stopovers at ports of call. (Article 31)

What are the rules for marriages performed by a military commander?

A military commander of a unit, who is a commissioned officer, has the authority to solemnize marriages in articulo mortis between persons within the zone of military operation, whether members of the armed forces or civilians. (Article 32)

Can I get married to my first cousin?

No, you cannot. You are related to your cousin by four civil degrees. Because of public policy, the Family Code prohibits marriage between persons related within the 4th degree of consanguinity (Article 38 of the Family Code).

Here’s how to count the number of degrees: From you to your father or mother, that is one degree. From your father or mother, to your grandparents, that is another civil degree. From your grandparents to your uncle or aunt, that is another degree. And from your uncle or aunt to your first cousin, is another degree, making a total of four degrees.

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Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

I wish I had a magic wand to erase all your mistakes but I don’t have any. The fact is you can be charged criminally if you use the falsified documents for claiming benefits under the SSS (where you are listed as single) or with the BIR. If you try to claim benefits under our Solo Parents Law, the DSWD in your town or city will ask to provide documents like the birth certificates of your kids. But with the falsified entries in the birth certificates, you can again get into trouble.

To correct the birth certificates of your kids involves the filing of a petition for correction under Rule 108 but you can get into trouble because you had a part in the falsification of the entries (date and place of parents, etc).

If you have a compassionate personnel manager in your office, perhaps he or she may be able you provide you with solutions.

You can also try coming clean (meaning revealing everything) to your parents, asking for their forgiveness and for their support.

Anonymous said...

hi sir,

My husband send a aponsorship application in Mississauga..they approved his application and forward the application for permanent resident in the Canadian Embassy in Manila..they requested me a signed affidavit providing explanation of how we obtained our marriage license same day as our marriage..i try to find a lawyer to help on that matter but all of them are not in their office..only their secretaries..one of the secretary i have talked with said that taht is not a ordinary affidavit that they make..im wondering how will i be able to have that affidavit? does a lawyer make an affidavit like that? i need that affidavit as soon as possible..thank you for reading this sir..

Anonymous said...

sir,
i was the one asking about the affidavit requested by the canadian embassy..i forgot to tell that after we receive our marriage license..we were also get married the same day thats why i think the embassy are confused..

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Under the Family Code, there is a mandatory ten-day waiting period from the time the application for a license is filed before it is released. It is anomalous for the Local Civil Registrar to have granted you a license without complying with the waiting period.

Please check the marriage certificate that you have and see if instead of a marriage license, Article 34 of the FC was used (affidavit of ratification of marital cohabitation).

You would have to secure the services of a lawyer / notary public to execute the proper affidavit explaining things. Sad to say but there are places advertising the services of a notary-public but in actuality, only clerks and secretaries perform the work (signing, sealing, etc) that the lawyer / notary public is supposed to do himself or herself. Try to see if you can get help from the PAO (Public Attorneys Office) in your city’s Hall of Justice.

Anonymous said...

dear atty. galacio,

first of all, i would like to thank you for extending your help to a lot of filipinos by answering questions and concerns for free. you're such a great blessing to many.

now, i have a question on behalf of my sister.

my sister lives in philippines. she is single and never been married. she is currently engaged to a filipino who is a naturalized canadian citizen and is living in canada.

before her fiance became a canadian citizen, he was previously married in philippines to a filipina, who at the time of that marriage is a naturalized canadian citizen. she, later on, divorced him in canada.

next year, my sister's fiance is going to philippines to marry my sister.

my question is this:

is it necessary for her fiance to file for an annulment of his previous marriage executed in philippines to a canadian citizen while he was still a filipino citizen if he is now coming to the philippines and marrying my sister as a canadian citizen? or, will the judicial decree of the absolute divorce from canada be sufficient to meet the requirement of the local civil registrar in applying for a marriage license?

your answer to this question would help my sister and her fiance to move towards the right direction in getting married. i would greatly appreciate your help. God bless you.

RB

Anonymous said...

My fiance is a Filipino citizen currently residing in Canada(working visa),is there a need for us to get a marriage license?we have lived together for 3 years and he's been away for 2 years.We have a child, 2 years and 8 mos.He will only be in the Philippines for 2 weeks and it's not possible for us to get a marriage license.Will the Canadian Embassy question the validity of the marriage w/out the marriage license?My concern is the consequences after if we didn't have a marriage license prior.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

RB,
1. Article 13 of the Family Code requires a previously-married person to indicate in the application for a marriage license the details of how that marriage was terminated. Your sister’s fiancé is no longer a Filipino citizen which means that the Family Code no longer applies to him.

The portion of the Family Code (Article 21) which does apply to him is that he must obtain from the Canadian embassy here a Certificate of Legal Capacity to contract marriage and present that certificate to the Local Civil Registrar.

2. There is a possibility of an administrative mess since the NSO will now contain two marriage certificates in the name of your sister’s fiancé (one with the original wife and the second one with that of your sister). What your sister’s fiancé should have done was to file a petition in court here in the Philippines for the recognition of the foreign divorce decree. Once the court granted the petition, it would have then ordered the NSO to annotate the judgment on its files.

Just to avoid any potential problem, you can ask your sister to seek the official opinion of the NSO Legal Department with regards this issue.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

You should observe completely the requirements of the Family Code on marriage license. Please do not get married using Article 34 of the Family Code if you cannot prove your live-in relationship by evidence (affidavits of witnesses, receipts, etc). The Canadian embassy is very strict in determining whether Article 34 has been complied with. If you cannot prove that you have lived continuously for at least five years without any legal impediment, your petition will be denied by the embassy.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty. Galacio,

Thank you so much for answering my question. Your answer and recommendations were concise and clear which would give my sister and her fiance a tremendous relief and stress rather than going through the process of annulment which I heard was very long and tedious.

RB

Anonymous said...

Atty.Gerry Galacio,

Is it legal to marry an aunt? That aunt is a younger sister of his father. Please... needs to know.

Thanks

Tiny drops of TinA said...

hi atty., My fiance & I plan to get married this Dec. 2008,We've been living together for 5 yrs this month, so, we're planning to get married under FC ART. 34, I just want to ask what proof can I keep as evidence that we've been living for 5 yrs aleady? I just want to make sure I'm not gonna encounter any problems in the future, like a void marriage. Also, I want to ask, how will I get an original copy of our marriage contract? & how many days do usually is the lead time to wait for it to be released? Thank you so much!!!

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Article 38 of the Family Code prohibits marriages “between collateral blood relatives whether legitimate or illegitimate, up to the fourth civil degree.” The nephew is related to the aunt by three civil degrees, and thus such a marriage is prohibited.

(The counting of degrees goes like this: from the nephew to his father, one civil degree; from the father to the grandparent, two degrees; and from the grandparent to the aunt, three degrees.)

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Cristina,

To be safe, do not get married under Article 34. You and your partner should apply for a marriage license.

As to the time necessary for the issuance of a marriage certificate, you should inquire with the NSO.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty.,

My boyfriend is a married man,but he and his wife have been separated
for almost 5 yrs now.They have a daughter whom he continuously supported despite their separation,but his estranged wife keeps their daughter away from him.He filed for annulment, but his wife contested it and was dismissed for his failure to attend the proceedings,as he was working abroad during those times.In addition, she always picked fights with his mother everytime his mother comes to visit her granddaughter, and accuses their family of so many things.He is planning to file another annulment case now that he is back in the Philippines.In the middle of all these dilemma, I recently found out that I got pregnant.Although I am ready to raise the child on my own,I worry for my boyfriend, as he might face concubinage charges when his estranged wife finds out about my condition.Although we are in very good terms with each other,and he is very supportive in raising the child, I am contemplating to severe my ties with him and raise the child alone. Will he still be criminally liable for concubinage if we won't have any means of communication? Please help!

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The real problem is not concubinage under the Revised Penal Code but RA 9262. Please read my posts on RA 9262 (look for the links in the sidebar). Under RA 9262, the legal wife can file a case of psychological violence against her husband (your boyfriend) and the penalty is a minimum of six years imprisonment.

Anonymous said...

dear attorney.
good day. I tried to send mail to you long before kaya lang bago pa lang ako natuto mag computer at di yata na send. Atty im one of those wives with problem sa husband. My husband is sterile and cannot give me a child though i have one son from a previous relationship and he accepted me with that fact. I never imagined he was that womanizer. One woman to another. Relationship lasts for only short period of time. He cannot accept the fact that he cannot give me a son. He continued his philandering ways and i stopped following him because it pains me so much seeing him that way, He abandoned me and just kept quiet about it to my family. My silence made him more lured to his vices but what can i do because he already told me that he wont stop unless somebody gives him a son. Right now i cannot do anything because i had undergone hysterectomy. Years of womanizing was not enough he made stories that it was all my fault. To the point he even insulted my family and that i cannot allow. I filed a case R.A.9262. He did not show up in court when he was sent the summon. what he did was he sneaked out of the country with the help of his cousin. I waited for the courts result and religiously following up the progress. Right now there is already a resolution then a review then i wastold to wait for a letter. Atty it seems im running out of patience. may kahihinatnan po ba ang kaso ko. What will I do with my husband who fled the country. may sagutin ba sa batas ang pinsan na tumulong sa kanya. Please enlighten me atty. Im still praying that i be given fair judgement. Salamat po ng marami sa inyo

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

e.l.c.

You mentioned RESOLUTION and REVIEW. That means that your case is still with the fiscal’s office and not yet with the court. If yes, the fiscal has 60 days from the time he got the records to complete his investigation. Once the fiscal issues the Resolution (which is reviewed lastly by the City Prosecutor), then the information and the records are sent to the Office of the Clerk of Court. Just be patient and follow the procedures.

The cousin may be liable for “obstruction of justice” for helping your husband to escape from being prosecuted.

If and when the case is filed in court and your husband is out of the country, then the court will ARCHIVE the case and issue a warrant of arrest. Archive means the records will be set aside in the meantime that your husband has not been arrested.

After the court has archived the case and issued a warrant, then you can coordinate with the Department of Foreign Affairs on how your husband’s passport can be cancelled. If his passport is cancelled, then he will be forced to come back here to the Philippines. Once he comes back, you can ask the NBI or the police to arrest your husband. (You should ask the court for a certified true Xerox copy of the warrant of arrest.)

Anonymous said...

dear attorney,

Maraming maraming salamat po sa mga paliwanag nyo. It has helped me a lot. It was a blessing that someone like you can take time to answer the queries na mahirap itanong sa iba. I will really pray hard for guidance and more patience kasi sa totoo lang po minsan nakakapagisip na ako ng masama to get even sa mga ginawa sa akin. I am loved yan lang po ang iniisip ko at this thought ang nagpapa neutralize ng anger ko plus iniisip ko po ang anak ko. Attorney is it alright to still keep relationship sa mga in laws ko. kasi ok naman kami yun lang baka maka apekto sa
kaso. Hindi po ako mapagtanim ng galit attorney and maybe this is the worst trait kaya palagi ako nate take advantage at saka palaging used and abused. Anyway maraming salamat po talaga. I'll keep in mind the patience has to be there. I know I will get fair justice. Salamat din po sa mga article nyo na nabasa ko. It was about forgiveness and loving oneself.

Respectfully yours,
e.l.c.

Anonymous said...

Sir, i would like to know the right age were parent should be involved & when the parents consent wasn't necessary anymore? and is Secret marriage exist or is there any secret marriage that is legal? 'coz from my side secret marriage wasn't acceptable. all i know a civil marriage & marriage at the church.and for secret marriage, how if can be a secret when your documents is supposed to be given on public(Gov't) for registry? please reply thank you. -JDCI

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

e.l.c.

The case against your husband is a different issue with your relationship with your in-laws, although it is natural for them (as parents) to ask or encourage you to drop the case. It is a matter of personal decision on your part whether to continue your harmonious relations with them.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

JDCI,

1. Please take note that below 18, no one can get married (even with parental consent).

2. Between 18 years of age up to 21 years, parental CONSENT is necessary.

3. From 21 years and one day up to 25 years, parental ADVICE is needed.

4. The term “secret marriage” usually means that only the man and the woman know about the marriage. Marriage is usually a joyous occasion among family members, but for one reason or another, in a secret marriage, the man and woman chose to get married without other people knowing about it.

Anonymous said...

A good day to you, Atty. Galacio. ask ko lang po sana kung pwede po bang isend na lang ang marriage license for signing sa spouse-to-be ko po sa abroad. kc po limited lang ang time nya pag uwi. pwede po bang later na lang muna ang marriage seminar pagdating nya?para po maipost na po agad kc ten days po ang need sa posting.at para pagdating nya after the seminar pwede na kami pakasal sa civil.after po kc sa civil mag church wedding din po kami.and we need the marriage contract from civil wedding namin para wala na kaming 3 sundays na banns sa church kc nga po limited lang ang time nya. thank you po. i hope you could help me with this.

Anonymous said...

good pm atty..i filled a spousal and child support case sa husband ko na nasa dubai,i found out kc that meron syang kabit and anak sa labas,kaya di cya nagsusuporta sa min ng anak ko.Hindi po cya nakikipagcooperate sa case na to, mas mabuti po ba na magfile na lang ako ng adultery?
Thank you po.

Anonymous said...

Nagpakasal po ako sa isang Japanese National gamit ang ibang pangalan to obtain a japanese visa para makapag work dito sa Japan. .Ngayon po I am trying to get a new passport under my real name sa ating embassy. Hinihingian po ako ng embassy ng cancelled marriage contract galing NSO bago nila ako bigyan ng passport.Paano ko po ba gagawin ito? Thank you.

Anonymous said...

Gd day Atty! I find this site very helpful and informative. Can you help me with this? I need legal advise. My bf is now considering divorce with his wife. He is a US Citizen, his wife was a Filipino Ctzen. They were married in 1998 i think in Civil. and married again in Church i think 2001. He want to divorce his wife who is now a US Citizen, after that, we plan to marry here in the Phils. I have read a thing about Divorce Decree. Can you explain it further, pls. What i understant is that my bf does not need to file for annulment, he only needs the Divorce Decree and we will be able to marry. What is a Divorce Decree? Before we marry, do they (him and his wife) need to appear in court or will a hearing follow? thanks a lot.

Anonymous said...

From the time fe files for Marriage license, how long shall we be able to marry? This is a continuation from Divorce Decree thanks.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

You have to inquire from the Local Civil Registrar or with the Legal Department of the NSO as to whether the APPLICATION for marriage license can be signed abroad and then sent back to the LCR. Article 11 of the Family Code which specifically deals with the procedure for the application for a license does not provide for the situation you described.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

As I discussed in this post, adultery CANNOT be committed by the husband. Adultery is a crime committed by the wife and her paramour (adulterous partner). The crime that can be committed by the husband is CONCUBINAGE under the Revised Penal Code, or psychological violence under RA 9262.

If you are able to get a Protection Order for financial support, your husband will be obligated to remit a certain percentage of his monthly salary directly to you. Please read my post ”Support for abandoned woman and family” also in this blog (look for the link in the sidebar).

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The NSO will not simply “cancel” a marriage certificate on its files. There must be a proper order from the court. Please take note however that our legal system follows what is known as “equity” which states that “he who comes to court must come with clean hands.” If you file a petition in court for declaration of nullity of your marriage, the court will most possibly dismiss your case, since you caused the problem yourself. You could even possibly be charged criminally.

If the Japanese guy himself files the divorce AGAINST you, then that might possibly be a solution. That divorce decree can then be presented in court here in the Philippines for recognition and then the court can order the NSO to make the necessary annotations. However, the problem will still be that you yourself may not be the best person to file the petition (as I stated above).

Anonymous said...

Sir,
Regarding about my question last October 20, 2008. For the right age to be married & for the secret marriage. For the age i would like to ask & as you said "18-21age need parental consent,21-25age need parental advice", how about 25age & beyond? and for the secret marriage as you answer that -(The term “secret marriage” usually means that only the man and the woman know about the marriage. Marriage is usually a joyous occasion among family members, but for one reason or another, in a secret marriage, the man and woman chose to get married without other people knowing about it.)- My question is what would be the right age to be able a man & a woman can undergo a secret married?
Sir please clarify & thank you very much for the reply in advanced. - JDCI

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

1. Your boyfriend and his wife are both US citizens. Their laws allows divorce. Once your boyfriend gets the divorce decree (the order or decision of the court granting the divorce), then he is free to marry again. Since he is an American citizen, all he needs to do is to apply with the US embassy here for a Certificate of Legal Capacity to contract marriage under Article 21 of the Family Code. Under Article 13 FC, your boyfriend must state in the application for marriage license the status of his previous marriage and how it was dissolved (in his case, divorce obtained when he was already a US citizen).

The potential problem is that when you get married and your papers are sent to the NSO, there will appear in the NSO files TWO marriage certificates in your boyfriend’s name.

2. That is the law. Biblically and statistically speaking however, I have to tell you that among Americans, second and third marriages have greater probabilities of ending in divorce. Meaning, your future marriage potentially will also end in a divorce (because of your boyfriend’s previous divorce).

3. There is a ten-day waiting period before the marriage license is issued. You can only get married after the license is issued to you. Once issued, the license is valid for 120 days anywhere in the Philippines.

Anonymous said...

dear atty,
im about to get married dis coming dec in a civil rites, can i request a judge to do the rites in the placeof the reception ? do i have to pay the judge? thank you...
have a nice day

Anonymous said...

Good Day Atty. I have a son from a married man and he is using my last name, can he use my british husband family name instead, because even though he was not the biological father he is willing to give his name for my son.Does my husband need to file petition for adoption? or he can just use my husband name because i also will change my maiden name to my husband surname.thanks and God Bless.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Article 8 of the Family Code provides that “the marriage shall be solemnized publicly in the chambers of the judge or in open court, in the church, chapel or temple, or in the office the consul-general, consul or vice-consul, as the case may be, and not elsewhere, except in cases of marriages contracted on the point of death or in remote places in accordance with Article 29 of this Code, or where both of the parties request the solemnizing officer in writing in which case the marriage may be solemnized at a house or place designated by them in a sworn statement to that effect.

If you want the judge to solemnize the wedding in the reception area, you have to request for it in writing. Please take note also that a judge can only solemnize marriage within his territorial jurisdiction, meaning a trial court judge for Manila cannot solemnize a marriage in Quezon City.

The legal fees for weddings solemnized by a judge are paid to the Office of the Clerk of Court (OCC). RA 6713 or the Code of Ethical Conduct for Public Officials and Employees prohibit the acceptance of gifts, awards, emoluments for the performance of official duties. In simpler terms, all the legal fees necessary for the civil wedding have to be paid to the OCC before the documents are finalized. You do not have to pay the judge anything.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Adoption is necessary. You cannot simply change his surname in the birth certificate because that will constitute the crime of simulation of birth.

Please read my post on the procedures in adoption (please look for the link in the sidebar). Please also take note of RA 9255 which amended Article 176 with regards the surname of illegitimate children. If the biological father of your son signed the birth certificate or issued an AUSF, then automatically, his surname will be changed to his surname. Please read my post on RA 9255.

Anonymous said...

a good day to you, Attorney! i have two kids po na illegitimate ang status khit na married na kami ng father nila kc may legal impediment on my side nung pinanganak cla. i mean di pa ako annuled nung time na yun. my marriage to my former spouse was already annulled and i was able to marry na their father. according to our friends we only have to adopt them para malegitimize cla. if this is so, then what are the steps or procedures? is true na kailangan pa ng court proceedings how long will it take po naman? kc po ang father nila ay ofw does he have to attend the proceedings too? kahit po ba illegitimate pwede pa rin po ba nya kaming makuha at pwede pa rin kaming magreside sa place of work nya which is in switzerland? thank you po attorney. God bless you po for helping us all.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Legitimation will not apply as you have noted since there was a legal impediment on your part. The proper procedure for the children to become legitimate is for you and your husband to jointly adopt them. Please read my post titled “Procedures in adoption under RA 8552” (look for the link in the sidebar). As of now, you can avail of RA 9255 so that your children can use their biological father’s surname. Please take note however that even if your children are using their father’s surname under RA 9255, they are still illegitimate. This is why adoption under Ra 8552 must be complied with.

Your husband must be present here in the Philippines for the initial, jurisdictional hearing. Afterwards, the lawyer you will retain can try to avail of what is known as “modes of discovery” in order to expedite (speed up) the hearings.

You have to inquire with the Swiss embassy or consulate as to the requirements or procedures for you and your children to live there.

Anonymous said...

Dear Attorney,

My bf who is a german citizen and I plans to marry in January, the problem is this:

He has used up all his hoidays coming back and forth here and will only be able to come back to the Philippines 7 days before the marriage date.

I know that he has to be here 15 days before the wedding (for the application of the marriage licence then the 15 day wait before the actual marriage licence is released) but it is just impossible.

What I have done was that I sent him 5 copies of (filled up) application for a marriage licence and asked him if he can go to the Phil. Consulate in Milan (he works in italy) to have HIS part of the application notarised by anyone who is authorised to do such things (like the consul if he is the one authorised to solemnised marriages abroad), but he was turned away because he was told the phil consulate has no 'authority' over foreigners.

But I wondered, if that is the case, then wouldnt all marriages solemnised in embassies between a foreigner and a filipino be deemed null and void if they do not have any 'authority' to actually notarise the application of the marriage licence so as to release the marriage licence and thereafter be married?

Anyway, ok, lets just say that they will maintain their stand (that they do not have any authority), I have consulted a former consul of san francisco what can one do to have the application for the marriage licence be notarised, he suggested that my bf must go to a local notary public there in italy, have it notarised, and then he must go back to the consulate to have it 'acknowledged' as a legal document.

What we are trying to do, my bf and i, is to actually have the application for marriage licence secured and notarised so that he could send it back to me, together with all the documents necessary for our marriage here in the Philippines, so that once I have submitted the application with all the documents, the 15 day period will run and so when he arrives here 7 days before the wedding, we will just wait for the wedding day!

Please, we are in a hurry, we are really running out of time. I am really disappointed with myself (and him actually) for not thinking all these through and planned this in advance, but please, if u have suggestions and jurisprudence which could throw light to make a separate application for a marriage licence valid, it would be such a great help so we can show it to the consulate and have our problem solved! thanks!

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

1. You have the option of getting married ABROAD in order to avoid the problems brought by the lack of time in securing the marriage license from the Local Civil Registrar.

2. You can inquire with the Legal Department of the NSO through its website www.census.gov.ph as to what can possibly be done with your situation.

nak ang said...

dear atty.,
i got involved with a married man overseas,when i got pregnant it is imperative that we produce a marriage certificate to the local authorities to show that we really are married, or else face imprisonment,since that is not possible for like i said the guy is already married, to avoid further problems we decided to fake our marriage,we had it notarized, sealed and authenticated, it got through somehow. Eventually, the guy and I separated for we both know it has to end, I came home to phils with my child and he stayed behind.
My child by the way is following the fathers last name and in the birth certificate shows that the childs parents are married.
So, in Phils. I checked my status to my surprise I was already married.
My problem is, how to erase my false marriage and change my childs last name without having the first wife know of anything, for I am sure that if she knows she will file a case against me, and I dont want any more trouble, for I am a single parent a legal battle is out of the question, I just want to get on with mylife and live peacefully.
I dont have ill will against my childs father or his family, i am hoping that there is a legal,clean, quiet way to get out of this mess.
Thank you and I hope to hear your legal opinions and advice,merry christmas

Sincerely,
troubled mom

Anonymous said...

dear atty,

if one of the parties to a marriage is overseas and cannot come to the LCR to have his part of the application for marriage license notarised before the wedding (which will take place 7 days after his arrival back to the philippines), can we at least have the 10 day waiting period for the posting/publication be done in advance so that when he comes back from abroad, he will be sworn to by the LCR and have the marriage license released on time for the wedding?

Anonymous said...

is it ok to remarry if it is fine with my former husband? do we really have to file an annulment before we can remarry? what if both of us just simply agree that we can remarry again? walang maghahabol; walang magdedemanda.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Troubled mom,

The marriage certificate on file with the NSO is an official document. The NSO will not take any action with regards docuemnts unless it is ordered by a proper court.

If you file a petition under Rule 108 for example, you will be admitting your part in the falsification of the documents you referred to. The court will not therefore grant your petition and you may be charged criminally.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

maganda,

The posting is done AFTER the application for the marriage license has been completed.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The answer is no. You cannot simply remarry, and that document or agreement does not have any legal effect.

Please read my post titled "Can a husband and wife in a notarized document declare that they are free to marry other persons and they will not file charges against each other?" (look for the link in the sidebar)

Anonymous said...

Atty. Good day po,
anong edad po ba para ang dalawang magsing-irog ay pwedeng magpa-secret marriage? salamat po. -June

Anonymous said...

gud day atty please help me i already wrote you a letter few weeks ago. ako po si e.l.c. atty ask ko lang what went wrong with my complaint kasi po na dismiss yung kaso. I was told na yung dates mentioned sa complains ko ay di pa sakop ng r.a.9262. i was really disappointed atty kasi po i trusted the lawyer who made my affidavit. gumastos po ako and provided her with the necessary papers only to end up like this. the lawyer mentioned dates of the previous offenses but failed to mention the date of the current complain. I even provided the referral letter given by the womens desk to the psychiatrist that did the counselling. I also have the medical certificate attached. bakit di man lang tiningnan ng fiscal ang mga attachments kung medyo malabo ang affidavit of complaints. ang isa pa atty humihingi ako ng copy ng summon and was asking them kung sino ang tumanggap pero wala sila maipakita. posisble po bang wala silang ipinadala na summon dun sa asawa ko kasi po nung minsan tumawag ako dun tinanong ko kung may sulat silang natanggap ang sagot po ay wala raw. i am given few days to file a motion for reconsideration with no certainty na hindi ma dismiss ang case. binigyan nga ng chance ang mga babae to fight for justice pero hindi pa rin patas pagdating sa korte. as they say money talks. pano na lang ang mga mahirap atty talo agad. pls enlighten me atty

Anonymous said...

good day atty., gusto ko lng maclarify kng valid ba or void ung marriage ko?kinasal kme by the age of 21 w/o parental consent.ung ngkasal smn pinapirma kme parehas kng san dpt pipirma ung magulang nmn.kinasal kme n wla man lng hininging documents nmn like birth cert.bsta pnapunta lng ako ng bf q sa city hall pra maikasal kme.. void b ung kasal nmn??

Anonymous said...

and atty. pinalitan nla ung address ng bf ko kc ung marriage license sa sanjuan nakuha kya dun inaddress ung bf ko.august 8 2008 poh kme kinasal?? void poh ba un or valid???

Anonymous said...

and atty. pinalitan nla ung address ng bf ko kc ung marriage license sa sanjuan nakuha kya dun inaddress ung bf ko.august 8 2008 poh kme kinasal?? void poh ba un or valid???

Anonymous said...

and atty. pinalitan nla ung address ng bf ko kc ung marriage license sa sanjuan nakuha kya dun inaddress ung bf ko.august 8 2008 poh kme kinasal?? void poh ba un or valid???

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

e.l.c.

You should clarify these matters with your lawyer especially with the filing of a Motion for Reconsideration.

Please take note however that RA 9262 became effective sometime in March 2004 and so acts of violence committed BEFORE this date are not covered by the law. If the acts of violence took place AFTER March 2004, then these are covered by the law.

In Tagalog, dapat ang mga acts of violence ay naganap anumang petsa mula March 2004 hanggang ngayon. Kung naganap ang mga acts of violence bago March 2008, hindi ito sakop ng RA 9262. Ito ang dahilan kung bakit dinismiss ang kaso mo.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

June,

Kung an magsing-irog ay below 18, absolutely hindi sila pwedeng magpakasal.

Kung between 18 to 21, kailangan nila ng parental CONSENT.

Kung between 21 to 25, kailangan nila ng parental ADVICE.

Kung parehong above 25, pwede na silang magpakasal kahit ayaw ng mga magulang.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Valid ang kasal kahit pinalitan ang address sa application sa marriage license.

Anonymous said...

atty..
i need your advise,, nalilito poh kc aq panu poh kng kinasal kme n parehong 21 yrs. old without parental consent valid p rin poh ba ung kasal nmn???.. and also finorge poh nmn ung signature ng parents nmn.. till now poh ndi alam ng parents q n kasal n poh aq and ang ginagamit q n surname ay ung sa pag kadalaga ko.. ndi poh kme ngsasama ng asawa ko.. d2 n poh aq sa ibang bansa and wla n rin poh aqong contact sknya.. and ang alam ko poh ndi poh nmn nafile sa census ung marriage contract nmn..ang may copy lng ay ung municipal kng san kme kinasal.. please asahan q poh ung response nyo... have a good day... -ashley

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

For Ashley and the person who asked the question last December 2 at 4:43 PM:

At age 18 to 21, parental CONSENT is necessary. At age 21 and one day, parental ADVICE and not consent is necessary. The solemnizing officer probably asked you and your boyfriend to execute an affidavit of marital cohabitation under Article 34 of the Family Code. Look at your marriage certificate or contract if the term “Article 34” is found there.

Article 34 states that “no license shall be necessary for the marriage of a man and a woman who have lived together as husband and wife for at least five years and without any legal impediment to marry each other. The contracting parties shall state the foregoing facts in an affidavit before any person authorized by law to administer oaths. The solemnizing officer shall also state under oath that he ascertained the qualifications of the contracting parties and found no legal impediment to the marriage.”

It is not true most probably that you lived together for five consecutive years as husband and wife. More importantly, five years from 21 you were 16 or 17 years old. That means that there was a “legal impediment” for you to get married. The view of Dean Rufus Rodriguez is that a false affidavit of marital cohabitation is similar to a marriage without a valid marriage license. The marriage is therefore void. You can inquire from other lawyers as to their view in this matter.

Please take note however that even if your marriage is void, you cannot take the law into your own hands and by yourself declare that your marriage is void. You still need to file a petition in court under Article 40 FC to declare your marriage as null and void.

Ashley,

The marriage certificate is NOT an essential or formal requisite of marriage under the Family Code. Even if there is not marriage certificate or contract on file with the NSO, the marriage can still be considered valid.

Like I stated above, at age 18 to 21, parental CONSENT is necessary. At age 21 and one day, parental ADVICE and not consent is necessary but not absolutely essential. The fact that you forged your parents' signatures will NOT therefore affect the validity of your marriage. This forgery can however possibly lead to civil or crimnal charges against you.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty.Im a single woman living with a separated man(not legally).He is separated for 10 years.Im in contact with his wife who is now a Muslim; married to a Muslim man for 5 years.Ex-wife encourages his ex and I get married in Islam.We have no problem with faith.But what are the effects if we get married in Islam?His previous Christian marriage still valid?If yes, is our Islam marriage valid in that case?my documents and names will be changed to Muslim name?My baby daughter will become Muslim too?Please explain implications and effects.I just want to build my family in a valid and sacred way.They will not agree annulment coz of expenses.Thank you sir.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty.Im a single woman living with a separated man(not legally).He is separated for 10 years.Im in contact with his wife who is now a Muslim; married to a Muslim man for 5 years.Ex-wife encourages his ex and I get married in Islam.We have no problem with faith.But what are the effects if we get married in Islam?His previous Christian marriage still valid?If yes, is our Islam marriage valid in that case?my documents and names will be changed to Muslim name?My baby daughter will become Muslim too?Please explain implications and effects.I just want to build my family in a valid and sacred way.They will not agree annulment coz of expenses.Thank you sir.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty:

There is a 10-day waiting period before the marriage licence is released, so that means on the 11th day, the marriage licence will be released.

Can we get married on that day (11th day)?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The 10-day period is for the posting of the notice. The license is not necessarily or automatically issued on the eleventh day. You have to inquire with the LCR. As soon as the license is issued however, you can get married immediately.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Anne,

Filipino Muslims are not covered by the Family Code but by PD 1083 or the Code of Muslim Personal Laws. My expertise is in the FC. You have to consult with the Office of Jurisconsult (created by PD 1083) on the matters you have raised.

Anonymous said...

dear sir,
child custody

Seeking advice and legal actions for my sisters situation. My sister is an OFW, after more tan a year someone informed her that his husband has a third party relation with other woman. Fortunately the one who infromed her was her husbands other woman and admitted the they already had a baby (3 months old).Sabi ng babae na shes soory for what happened and shes wiiling to cooperate to my sister. It means that when my sister went overseas, her husband has already in relaship with that woman na hindi alam ng sister ko.
My siter and her husband has already a daughter whom is 3 years of age and presently living to my sisters husband house together with my mother (parang yaya ng anak nila and para maalagaan ng mabuti ang bata). pero umuuwi din cla sa province namin and pumapayag naman ang bayaw ko na dalhin ng nanay ko apo nya. Lately situation changed at the time when my sister comfronted his husband if he has a relationship with that other woman and as expected he denied all the accusation. pero gusto na ding hiwalayan ng kapatid ko ang asawa nya pero ayaw ng bayaw ko becuase when my sister is still here in the philippines may mga third party na talagang involved ang bayaw ko.
As of now nagbabakasyon ang nanay ko at pamangkin ko place ko. Then my sisters husband told to my sister na kapag hindi daw namin binalik ang pamangkin ko sa poder nya eh kakasuhan daw kami ng kidnapping.

Kapag ganito po ang mangyayari khit nasa abroad ang kapatid ko:

a) can my sister file a legal separation this early and custody for their 3 yr. old daughter?

b. Can he file a law suit against his husband and her lover? What proofs does he need in court to make his case strong. Are text messages coming from my sisters husband lover stating the involvement of a third party valid as a proof? How about pictures? My sister is planning to hire a detective to know the whereabouts of his husband. If the detectives can produce pictures of his husband with another man say , in a mall or a restaurant, can it be presented as proof?

c. At the moment, can my sister refuse to give his daughter to his husband even shes abroad . We are afraid that if his husband took my niece he will not return the child to my sister anymore.

d. Can my sister seek temporary custody of her daughter even shes abroad?

e: Is it true that my sisters husband can file against us a kidnapping case if do not return my niece to his custody?

Thank you and I hope somebody would advice us what to do. Please help us.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

1. Legal separation is governed by Articles 55 to 67 of the Family Code. Please read the FAQ section of www.familymatters.org.ph for my discussion on the differences among legal separation, annulment of voidable marriage and declaration of nullity of a void marriage. Specifically, your sister can use “sexual infidelity” as the ground for filing a petition for legal separation. Please take note however that in legal separation, the spouses remain married to each other.

2. Text messages can be used as evidence provided that it can be proved that they are genuine. For example, the husband can deny that the SIM is his own. If the text messages are only from the other woman, he can claim that the text messages were fabricated. So your sister needs other evidences. Hiring a private detective is expensive but that might produce better pieces of evidence.

3. Through an SPA (Special Power of Attorney) executed and sworn to before the proper officials of the Philippine embassy or consulate of the country where your sister is working, she can authorize you or your grandmother to file a petition under Article 231 of the Family Code to deprive the father of parental authority. You or your mother will also ask the court to grant temporary custody of the kids to you while your sister is abroad.

Just in case the father files a case of kidnapping against you, you should immediately ask your sister to execute an affidavit before the consular officials that she has authorized you and your mother to take temporary custody of the child pending the filing of the petition I mentioned above.

At the same time, your sister should file a petition for judicial separation of property against her husband. Also your sister should ask a competent notary public to prepare a document for disinheriting her husband. Please read my post “Disinheriting your spouse” (look for the link in the sidebar). If your sister files a petition for legal separation under Articles 55 to 67 FC, the issues of separation of property, disinheritance and custody of children will be dealt with by the court.

Alyx said...

Hi Sir,

Good day to you, just wanted to ask as stated in article 23 that marriage certificate should be filed not later than fifteen days after the marriage, does this include saturdays, sundays, and holidays?.

Thank you and God Bless!

nak ang said...

dear atty,
i need ur legal advice, I have married an already married man, knowing in the first place that he is already married,we did not really live together, but we had a child, we separated eventually. Now I plan to have this marriage annulled coz it was void in the first place and to have my status cleared, my question is:

1. If I file for annulment will my husband be charged for concubinage? I have no wish to file cases against him my purpose is for record clearing only.

2. his first wife doesnt know anything about us, will she be informed if I file the nullity of our marriage?

thank you atty for your time, I hope to hear from you soon.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Alyx,

Under the provisions of the New Civil Code and our Rules of Court, if there are no specifications or clarifications, “days” would mean calendar days (meaning including weekends and holidays). Of course, if the 15th day falls on a weekend or a holiday, the filing can be done on the next working day.

Anonymous said...

Can we be considered married if we have an affitdavit of cohabitation without any legal impediments?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

An affidavit of cohabitation is used in place of a marriage license. You are NOT married simply because you have that kind of affidavit. To be legally married, you will still have to go through a marriage ceremony done by an authorized solemnizing officer like a mayor or judge.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

nak ang,

Your petition will be for the declaration of nullity of a bigamous marriage. You can read the Supreme Court Rule on how this kind of petition proceeds in the Legal Procedures section of www.familymatters.org.ph

The petition will be filed with the man as the respondent. You have to present proof of the man’s previous subsisting marriage but you will not be including the first wife as a respondent. There is a possibility however that the first wife will come to know about the petition. For example, the court summons (notices by the court about the petition or of hearings) will be sent to wherever the man’s address is (as you reported it in your petition). If the wife or anybody else happens to receive the summons, she will know about the case.

miriam said...

Gud pm poh, atty.. i'm a government employee, single but soon to be a mother. i'm afraid to get married at this early age..i'm only 22 years old. but we have plans with my partner as soon as i reach at the age of 26. as of this time, do i have any violation against the law? what cases could they filed against me? Hope to receive a legal advice from you atty. thank you poh.. Advance Happy New Year

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Miriam,

Under the Civil Service Commission rules, you can possibly be charged with “disgraceful and immoral conduct committed through inherently immoral acts.” This charge can be filed by the disciplining authority (your specific government agency or office) or by any person.

Please surf the CSC website for more information.

Anonymous said...

Hi Atty, I am new to this blog and as I read, I learned a lot of things about marriages and relationships. however, i have one question myself. My husband, a US national and I got married in the US last year, and he plans to marry me again here in the Philippines, in honor of my parents and friends. Since we were legally married in the States does he still need to apply for a certificate of Legal Capacity to Marry even if the wedding heein the PHilippines will just be a re enactment of our declaration of vows in the US? And also, do i need to file our marriage in the US to the NSO?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

1. You should file your US marriage documents with the NSO.

2. The wedding here in the Philippines should only be a re-enactment. Beforehand, you must tell the solemnizing officer that you are already married in the US and that corresponding changes in the ceremony should therefore be made. Meaning, you should not sign any new marriage certificate or even apply for a certificate of legal capacity with the US Embassy. There have been situations where in reenactments, the solemnizing officer still forwarded the marriage certificate to the LCR and then to the NSO. Thus, the NSO had on its files two marriage certificates.

For example, the solemnizing officer can announce to the wedding guests that you are already legally married in the US and that what you are doing is merely reenacting your marriage vows.

Anonymous said...

godd day Atty

i would like to seek for a legal advice regarding death claims. my parents were annualled, my father re-married. my father recently passed away leaving an insurance. how much can we, the children from first marriage get from that insurance?he has no children from 2nd marrige.the second wife claims 50% of the insurance and an additional percentage from our part (we are 4 children), is it legal?we also have pending case to the second wife for falsifying the marriage certificate to my father wherein she declared she's single when in fact she's already married.thank you so much atty.

Anonymous said...

Good day...my husband abandoned us (me and my 3 children) 6 years ago and without giving any financial support to our kids. Please advise me on what to do and how should i track him down since his cousin told me that he is in UAE working with his live in partner and children. I just want to ask for financial support for my kids. thank you so much

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

As a rule, the surviving spouse gets 50% as his or her share in the conjugal property. Then the remaining 50% of the estate is divided among the children with the surviving spouse counted as one child. In your case, therefore, the second wife’s computation is correct, that is, the remaining 50% will be divided into five shares.

HOWEVER, our law on insurance provides that beneficiaries of an insurance policy must have an “insurable interest.” If you are able to establish that indeed she was already married when she got married to your father, then she will not be entitled to the insurance (unless she was declared as a business partner in the insurance policy). Also, if indeed the marriage was bigamous, then Article 148 of the Family Code was the governing rule in her property relations with your father. Article 148 (together with Article 147) determines property relations of live-in partners.

Through your lawyer, you should expedite the declaration of nullity of the second marriage for being bigamous. Since your father has died, the petition is for the purposes of settling his estate and determination of who his legal heirs are. You should write to the insurance company asking it to delay paying out the insurance until you have settled the issue of the bigamous nature of the second marriage.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Please read my post also in this blog titled “Support for abandoned woman and family” (look for the link in the sidebar).

Anonymous said...

hi atty galacio,

my fiance and i plan to get married this april. the problem is his limited stay in the philippines. he will be arriving arpil 19 (sunday) and leaving april 30 (thursday). we plan to get his legal capacity to marry at his embassy on the 20th and go straight to the civil registrar's office on the same day to file our application for a marriage license. my question is when will the 10-day posting period start? the next day or the same day we file it? also, if we get married (civil) on the 30th (the same day he leaves) will our laws consider our marriage legal/official? or we will have problems with it? because he is planning to file for a spouse petition for me.

i would really really appreciate if you could help me. thank you.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Abbie,

It is doubtful that your fiance can get the Certificate of Legal Capacity from his embassy in just one day. This alone will mess up your schedule. I don’t know the exact procedure of the LCR with regards the posting but I doubt if you can get the marriage license as early as April 30.

What if you are able to get the license and get married on April 30, and then he leaves immediately? There is no provision in the Family Code which prevents him from leaving at once. Your marriage will still be valid and legal.

Please do not avail of quickie marriages offered by some people in our city halls. These quickie marriages are based on Article 34 of the Family Code (ratification of marital cohabitation). This article provides that people who have been living in for at least five years without legal impediment do not need a marriage license (and thus there is no need for the ten-day posting period). Embassies are very strict with marriages using Article 34 as basis. Several people who have e-mailed me resorted to Article 34; consequently, their petitions have been rejected when the embassies asked for proof that these couples have really lived together for five years or more.

Anonymous said...

hi atty,

thanks for the prompt reply and for the advice. i didn't know about the quickie marriages. thanks for the heads up :)

i guess i should check with the LCR about their posting procedure.

thanks again and more power to you.

Anonymous said...

Good day!
Ito po problem ng pinsan ko.

Atty. nabuntis po ung pinsan ko bago umalis ung boyfriend niya papuntang US.

Ngayon po ay 9 yrs. old na ung bata. May financial support naman po ung bata at nasa guardianship nung magulang ng lalaki, habang nag DH ung pinsan ko abroad….

Nagpakasal na po ung pinsan ko sa iba at yung ama ng bata ay kasal na din sa US.

May petisyon po ung bata, at payag naman ung pinsan ko na pumunta dun ung bata. …


Nagkaroon po ng problema at sa ngayon po ay wala na ung bata bahay nung mga magulang ng lalaki…

Gusto po ng pinsan na mag file ng kaso para humingi ng mas malaking sustento dun sa ama.

Pwede po ba ito kahit na may suntento namang natatanggap ung bata? Uuwi daw po ung ama ng bata at kakausapin niya. Pag daw po di pumayag sa hinihingi nyang financial support, ipapa hold niya sa immigration para di makabalik sa US…. Posible po ba ito kahit na American Citizen na ung ama ng bata? ANo po dapat gawin ng pinsan ko? Thank you po & Godbless.

yen said...

good day, atty. gerry galacio. can i make a query regarding family support? i have a male officemate ( provincial capitol )who is married and currently who is not going home to their conjugal dwelling for the past 2 days. had 3 children but all of whom are already of legal age, the youngest being 23 years old and already finished their studies. his wife is also working at the LGU in our municipality.he wants to be legally separated form his wife. the wife wants him to give a finacial support on a monthly basis. my query is, CAN THE HUSBAND BE OBLIGED TO GIVE FINANCIAL SUPPORT? WHAT IF THE HUSBAND REFUSE TO GIVE? WHAT ARE THE REMEDIES FOR THIS? WHAT ARE THE GOVERNING LAWS? i am just concern.he is asking for legal advice. please help. thank you, atty. gerry galacio

Anonymous said...

Sir,

Please I need a legal advice. I am 19 years old and just got married last May 2008. I am now planning to go on college; will it be legal that I will still be using my maiden name for my scholastic records? Will it be complicated? What are the consequences of hiding my true status?

Thank you and more power!

ANNE

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Yen,

The Family Code provides in Article 68 that husband and wife, among other things, are obliged to support each other. Article 195 provides that spouses must support each other, and parents must support their children.

Please download my free PDF newsletter from www.familymatters.org.ph on the issue of financial support. If the husband refuses to support his wife and/or children, he can be charged civilly and criminally with violation of RA 9262 Anti-Violence Against Women and their Children Act of 2004.

The amount of support is balanced by the court between the necessities of the person asking for support and the financial capability of the person from whom support is being asked.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Anne,

Please read my post titled “Philippine law on surnames for married women” (look for the link in the sidebar). To avoid complications in your records, you should begin using your married name.

Anonymous said...

me and my bf are living abroad. we are planning to get married(civil)in the philippines. is it possible to obtain a marriage license from here(abroad) and then have the civil wedding in the philippines?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The application for a marriage license must be filed with the Local Civil Registrar of the town or city where either of the prospective spouses is a habitual resident (Article 9 Family Code).

Anonymous said...

Hi attorney. my concern is that i civilly married a muslim man here in the philippines adminstered by a judge.Now my husband used a christian name on our marriage certificate.now he married again under a muslim right using a different name, which is a late registered name with a different father.i just want to know is our married valid or not.i don't want to involve myself with anymore.was our marriage valid from the start?and what about our child? what surname will he use?what will i do to nullify our marriage?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The requisites for a valid marriage are provided under Articles 3 and 4 of the Family Code. If that Christian name used by the man is something which he habitually used in his business and personal relations (or he is known in the community by that Christian name), then the marriage is legal.

Even if the marriage is void however, you cannot take the law into your own hands. Article 40 of the Family Code states that you need a court order declaring your marriage null and void.

mharckerika said...

Good day attorney!
I just want to ask for a legal advice. I was married last January 2008. Honestly, there was no ceremony at all. We just signed the papers and asked our neighbours to sign as the witnesses and paid a certain amount. I was 23 then and my parents signed the papers too. I dont even know where the church is and the priest who signed the marriage contract. But i got a copy from the NSO and had used our amrriage contract abroad. Is our marriage legal? Now we are physically separated and my "husband" is living with his mistress. What case do i need to file? Hope to hear from u soon. Please help me.
Thank you and god bless

mharckerika said...

Good day attorney!
I just want to ask for a legal advice. I was married last January 2008. Honestly, there was no ceremony at all. We just signed the papers and asked our neighbours to sign as the witnesses and paid a certain amount. I was 23 then and my parents signed the papers too. I dont even know where the church is and the priest who signed the marriage contract. But i got a copy from the NSO and had used our amrriage contract abroad. Is our marriage legal? Now we are physically separated and my "husband" is living with his mistress. What case do i need to file? Hope to hear from u soon. Please help me.
Thank you and god bless

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty Galacio,

Sir,

I am married for 31 years now and recently I found out that my records at NSO for my marriage license and certificate were not registered. In fact my fiancee took the initiative of asking a CENOMAR (certificate of no marriage)from the NSO and indeed it shows that I am single. I know the provision of the Philippine Family Code that simply states that marriage license or certificates are not essentials for marriage to be valid. I am pretty sure that having stayed marriage for 31 long years we have our circle of friends and children who are grown up and having a family of their own to testify the validity of our union. My question is related to my current fiancee with whom I have a son from her. She is a dual citizen both US and Filipino and she is keen in contracting marriage with me as the results of the CENOMAR. Am I getting into a potential marital problem that may jeopardized me and my fiancee if and when we decide to marry?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

mharckerika,

The Family Code does not prescribe a specific ceremony. You were above 21 when you got married, and your parents signed the certificate. While the marriage certificate is NOT an essential or a formal requisite of marriage under the FC, that certificate on the NSO files is a strong evidence of the validity of your marriage. Please read the FAQ section of my Family Matters website for you to learn more about void and voidable marriages.

Please take note that the Supreme Court has ruled that marital infidelity by itself does constitute a ground for declaring a marriage null and void. At the most, such infidelity is a ground only for legal separation.

In terms of support from your husband, please read my post “Support for abandoned woman and family” (look for the link in the sidebar).

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

gerson,

Clarification on your statement “marriage license or certificates are not essentials for marriage to be valid”: Under the FC, the marriage CERTIFICATE is not an essential or a formal requisite of marriage. The lack of a valid marriage LICENSE makes a marriage void.

You got married before August 1988, the date of effectivity of the Family Code. Even then however, under the New Civil Code of the Philippines, the validity of your marriage can be proven by the testimonies of the witnesses, the marriage license, public and open cohabitation as husband and wife, etc.

If and when you get married again, you can be charged with bigamy. Your wife can also file RA 9262 cases against you.

Anonymous said...

i am married for 18 yes to my husband. only to find out recently that he was previously married
but the girl remarried before he married me. is our marriage null and void?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

You did not state whether the marriage between your husband and the woman was declared null and void BEFORE you got married. If not, then your marriage is bigamous and void. It does not matter that the woman got married again before you and your husband got married.

Under Article 40 of the Family Code however, you cannot take the law unto your own hands and declare by yourself that your marriage is void. You must file a petition in court to have your marriage declared null and void.

Anonymous said...

Magandang araw po, Atty. Gelacio!

Gusto ko po sanang malaman kung ang NSO report or CENOMAR report ay sapat na katibayan para maghain nang Bigamy? Kung sakali po, saan po ba maaaring maghain nang reklamo?

Maraming salamat po, Atty. Gelacio.

Margaret said...

Dear Atty. Gelacio:

My husband and I have been separated since year 2000. We have 2 kids. After the separation, i have had a relationship with a man who's been helping me financially just to support the kids. Because my husband just had his financial support when the kids are already in college.

I've discussed the plan of annulment with my ex-husband since he's already married now to another woman. But he's giving me hard time on this though he's happily married now.

It's hard for me because I cannot move-on when am still using his last name. It's unfair for me. I don't have benefits anyway ever since by being married to him. How come he's giving me hard time to file for the declaration of Nulity of our marriage.

Recently, I've also found out through CENOMAR that he's married to a three woman including me. I am the first one.

My friends advised me that it is about time to file for a Bigamy against him if he's still giving me hardtime.

Please help.

Thank you very much.

John said...

Atty. Gelacio, just wanna know what is the difference between Criminal Bigamy and Civil Bigamy?

Thank you and more power to your helpful site. May God bless you always.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

John,

In our system of criminal justice, every person who is criminally liable is also civilly liable. A criminal case has two aspects: a criminal aspect and a civil aspect. Another term for civil aspect is “civil obligation.”

Ultimately, the offended party in a criminal case is the State. This is the reason why criminal cases are titled “People of the Philippines versus ___________ .” The complainant is known as the “private offended party.”

The criminal aspect has to do with the penalty of imprisonment and/or the payment of a fine. In the civil aspect or (civil obligation) of the case, the accused convicted of the crime is required to pay damages (actual, moral, exemplary, attorney’s fees) to the private complainant.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Margaret,

“I've discussed the plan of annulment with my ex-husband since he's already married now to another woman.”(1)You do not need your husband’s consent or approval in filing a petition to have your marriage declared null and void. If your friends have been telling you that your husband has to sign the petition, this is wrong.

All you need to do is to retain the services of a lawyer; the lawyer will prepare the petition and the necessary documents and evidences; the filing fee or docket will be paid; and after the court issues its order, the sheriff or process server of the court will give a copy of the summons to your husband at his last known address.

If your husband accepts the summons, that’s it, the court has acquired jurisdiction over him. If your husband is not present at the time the sheriff or process server presents the summons, then it can be given to any person of suitable age and discretion. If your husband is present but refuses to receive the summons, that is not a problem. The sheriff or process server will “tender” the summons to him. If he still refuses, then the sheriff or process server will just leave a copy of the summons and then submit a report to the judge that the summons has been tendered. The court has now acquired jurisdiction over your husband, and the petition will continue.

If your husband cannot be located, then your lawyer will ask the court for permission to have the summons published in a newspaper of general circulation.

[2] You should not discuss this plan of filing a petition for declaration of nullity with your husband. This is known as “collusion” and the judge will simply dismiss your petition.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Besides the CENOMAR (or the negative report indicating that the person is already married), you will need a certificate from the NSO that the second marriage was solemnized while the first marriage was still subsisting. Meaning, at the time of the second marriage, the first wife was still alive and the first marriage has not been voided.

The bigamy case should be filed in the town or city where the second marriage took place.

For free legal assistance, please contact the DOJ Action Center. The DOJAC acts on complaints, requests for assistance and legal queries of walk-in clients of the DOJ. For legal assistance please visit the Department of Justice Action Center (DOJAC) Main Office, Ground Floor, Multi-Purpose Building, Padre Faura Street, Ermita, Manila; Telephone no: 523-84-81; Email Address: dojac@doj.gov.ph or visit any Regional/Provincial/City Prosecution Offices in your town or city.

Anonymous said...

Hi Atty Galacio,

I am getting married to my gf who's a Canadian citizen. She's 23. Does she need parental advise? I was just wondering if it would even apply to her since she will already submit an affidavit of legal capacity. Thanks.

Migz

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Migz,

The capacity of Canadian citizens to contract marriage is governed by Canadian laws and not by our Family Code. If she is able to obtain a Certificate of Legal Capacity to contract marriage from her embassy or consulate, that means she is qualified to marry under Canadian law.

The FC provision for parental advice (for those getting married between 21 to 25) does not apply to her.

Battered Wife said...

Atty Gerry Galacio, thank you for all your free legal advice. You are sent by God.

Anonymous said...

Hi Atty Galacio,

I need some advice on my situation. Firstly, I'm a Canadian citizen. I was adopted and immigrated to Canada when I was 8 years old. I got married to a Filipino citizen whom I found out that we are first cousins before we got married. Even though we are that, we still got married because I genuinely love her. Now, it is legal for first cousins to marry in Canada. During the immigration application, we did not exclude the fact that we were first cousin because I believe it was the right thing to do. Now the immigration is voiding our marriage under the article 38 section 1 since we got married in the Philippines and if it's voided I can sponsor her as a spouse. I don't really know what to do. Can you please offer some advice..?

Any help is appreciated.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The Family Code provides that marriages between first cousins are void by reasons of public policy. This means that there is actually no biological or scientific reason why first cousins should not get married; this is why other countries do not prohibit such a marriage. The framers of the FC decided to include the prohibition because Filipino society and culture do not approve of such marriages.

The prohibition applies to Filipino citizens. When you got married, you were a Canadian citizen, and your wife was a Filipino citizen. The question is, does the prohibition apply to a former Filipino citizen like you? My personal opinion is that the FC prohibition does not apply to you since as a Canadian citizen, you are not covered by the FC. Other lawyers may have opinions different from mine, of course.

What you can do is to retain the services of a lawyer who can file what is known as a “petition for declaratory relief” with the Regional Trial Court. Through this petition, you will be asking the court to issue a ruling on whether or not the prohibition against marriages between first cousins applies to you or not.

Anonymous said...

Hi again Atty Galacio,

Thank you for the timely reply. I'm the one who posted concerning first cousin marriages previously. I have a few questions. Will this "petition for declaratory relief" allow my wife who is a Filipino citizen to immigrate to Canada..? I don't want to fall into a Catch 22 scenario where it's not applicable to me but it's applicable to my wife because she's a Filipino citizen. She's the one being denied permanent residence. Also the lawyer I have to retain should it be a Canadian lawyer or a Filipino one..? And which Regional Trial Court will I have to file this petition..?

RG

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

RG,

First of all, please clarify what you meant by “immigration is trying to void your marriage” in your first comment. By “immigration” are you referring to the Canadian embassy here or some government office here in the Philippines?

If the Philippine court rules in the petition for declaratory relief that your marriage is legal, then you can use that ruling in your favor. You can show that ruling to the Canadian embassy (or to any government office here in the Philippines) to prove that your marriage is legal. As to whether the Canadian embassy would consider that court ruling in favor of your wife’s immigration, that’s not something I can answer. But a petition for declaratory relief is the best legal remedy you have to establish the validity of your marriage.

Actually, the Department of Justice issues legal opinions. You can try asking the DOJ to issue an opinion on your situation. But unlike a court ruling, the DOJ opinion is lesser in weight.

I will assume that your wife is still here in the Philippines. She can, through a Filipino lawyer, file the petition for declaratory relief in whatever town or city she is residing in.

Margaret said...

Dear Atty. Galacio:

Hello, Attorney! Am back coz nothing to turn to aside from God.

I have mentioned here before that my husband is giving me hard time to shoulder the annulment fee since I don't have enough resource for the said fee as a single mom.

If am going to file Bigamy, it might be dismissed due to Collusion as you said because prior to this, they were already hired a lawyer but the lawyer was having a hard time to make a Petition because he cannot find the right grounds for my husband.

However, the hired lawyer was aware of my husband's third marriage. I am not sure if he knows the 2nd marriage.

When I became persistent to this issue why the case was not moving since the last time he was paid and had already submitted my requirements, he was just easily pissed-off and suddenly withdraw the case through text message.

I was shocked for what the hired lawyer did because I believe that a professional lawyer should not react that way if he has been paid already. I guess, as a client, I have the right to ask. I wondered why.

Then the relatives of my husband were blaming me for this that the hired lawyer told them "I wasn't cooperating..." but the truth, I was always running out of load just texting and calling him up for the updates or making follow-ups for the case.

Now for the second time around, I decided that I would be the one to look for the new lawyer who is trusted enough. But no one from my husband's relatives making an effort to meet the newly hired lawyer though they have compromised with already only in words but lack of action. It's more than a month now. When I confronted one of my husband's relative what was the reason for giving me hard time since it was 10years already that this case should have been settled. The relative only said that I should wait because they're the one to shoulder the expense and I should not make any demand then suddenly the relative simply said "goodbye" like what the first lawyer did.

I wondered why these people are so unprofessional since I have giving all my cooperation just to settle this peacefully for the sake of our two kids's moral welfare.

You know Atty, the only solution that I have made to settle all these things peacefully and not to beg anymore, I went to PAO and begged for their free service. The PAO was so kind enough to simply accept my case. But I have patiently accomplished first the requirements to be qualified for PAO's free legal service.

My main concern now are my kids not to be affected with their's father immaturity. They are adolescent now. I don't want them to be embarrassed just because of the past mistakes of their parents.

Atty, here is my question:
How long it will take to solve the annulment case through the service of PAO? What if my husband does not show-up after receiving the Petition?

You know, I am so proud of this PAO when after submitting my Testimony of Affidavit, they have easily make the Petition and let me signed it over on the same day of submitting the said requirements.

I am so proud of this Attorney who is God-fearing and very professional without collecting fee from the client.

Thank you Atty Galacio, for this site as our extended PAO.

May God bless you always.

Sincerely yours,
Margaret

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Margaret,

1. A petition for declaration of nullity usually takes more than a year. If the Family Court handling your petition is overloaded with cases (which is usually the case), the case will take more than two years to finish. Please take note however that your PAO lawyer or any lawyer for that matter cannot guarantee that the court will grant your petition. Please read my post about the case of entertainer Amy Perez and how here petition was denied (look for the link in the sidebar).

2. “What if my husband does not show-up after receiving the Petition?”Please read my post “What happens in an annulment case if the respondent fails to file an Answer?” (look for the link in the sidebar).

3. To show your appreciation for the PAO lawyers (they are overworked and underpaid), you can write a letter expressing your thanks and appreciation to the PAO chief (Atty. Persida Rueda) and the DOJ Secretary Raul Gonzales. But clear this first with your PAO lawyers.

Anonymous said...

hi atty,ako po ay kasal sa wife ko na permanent resident d2 sa japan,at d2 po sa japan ay legal ang divorce,alam ko po na madivorce man ako sa kanya ay d2 lang sa japan ang effectivity nun dahil walang divorce satin sa pinas at nanatiling tunay kaming mag aswa sa batas ng pilipinas dahil pareho kaming pilipino,ang kwestiyon kopo ay,1.kung madivorce poba ako sa kanya dito sa japan dahil legal ang divorce dito ,pahihintulutan poba ako ng ating embahada na makasal uli sa kapwa ko pilipino d2 sa japan?2.legal poba at pinahihintulutan poba ng batas natin na makapag asawa muli ako ng foreigner halimbawa po japanese citizen kung madivorce nko sa asawa kong pilipina d2 sa japan?Aasahan kopo ang inyong tugon,marami pong salamat,mabuhay po kayo!

Anonymous said...

My husband is a lebanese and we got married in the Philippines. lebanon has no civil marriage. If the marriage obtained abroad, well then it fine. In times of dispute the civil court in lebanon is competent to handle the divorce which is according to the family law of the Philippines where the marriage took place. Now, my husband is filing an appeal to divorce in lebanon, using our family code 26 and 55. Do you think they could grant us a divorce using art. 26 & 55? Can I have an appeal in their court to transfer the case in the Philippines where the marriage took place where I could be well represented than in his country where I do not know anybody? Thanks

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

You are right that divorce is not allowed for Filipino citizens. If you get married again whether to another Filipino citizen or a foreigner, that marriage will not be legal from the standpoint of Philippine law.

It is not the job of the Philippine embassy to determine the legality of marriages or divorce; that is a function of our courts. Even if your wife files the divorce decree with the embassy, the embassy will accept it pro forma (as a matter of course) BUT that does not mean that the Philippine government (through the embassy) is recognizing the validity of the divorce.

Anonymous said...

Hi atty!I'm a single parent,my daughter carries my surname and i didn't write her father's name in any of her documents (i put "unknown" on the father's name field in her birth certificate,i also did not put her father's name in her school records.) Her father is getting married next year,and a friend advised me that i should ask him to acknowledge my daughter as his child.my dilemma is,what are the advantages of her dad ackenowledging her as his daughter?and if i decide to let him acknowledge my daughter what are the necessary requirements for him to do this?hope you can help me atty. thanks in advance.

Anonymous said...

I was married young to my wife. In 2006, after 8yrs of living together we had found out that our marriage certificate was not properly filed and is lacking "marriage certificate number". We have been living separately for more than a year now,we have our own lives and now have different partners.Is our marriage valid even if the certificate was lacking the file number or should our marriage undergo the same annulment procedure like any other legal marriage? I want to marry my new girlfriend and i want to make things right this time.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Article 55 is not for divorce but for legal separation. In legal separation, the marriage ties remain (meaning, despite the grant of a decree of legal separation by the court, the man and woman will still remain married).

Article 26 refers to the right of a Filipino citizen to remarry upon being divorced by a foreign citizen. As to whether it can be used as a basis for divorce in Lebanon (or in countries without civil marriage), that issue has not been brought up to the Supreme Court.

You should consult either the Philippine embassy or consulate in Lebanon, OR a Lebanese lawyer for the answer to your questions.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Under the Family Code, the marriage certificate is NOT an essential or formal requisite of marriage. This means that even if your marriage certificate was not properly filed and is lacking "marriage certificate number", the marriage is legal.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

1. Your child’s father can issue an AUSF (Affidavit to Use the Surname of the Father). You will then have to present this AUSF to the Local Civil Registrar and whatever other documents the LCR might require.

2. Potential problems:

- The man’s wife might not agree about the man issuing an AUSF and this might cause problems between the two

- The man has visitation rights over your illegitimate child; how would you feel if your daughter begins spending more and more time with her father? I have received so many e-mails about mothers of illegitimate children fighting with the biological fathers over the times and days the children spend with them.

- How would you feel if your daughter becomes close not only to her biological father but also to the man’s future wife?

- How would you feel if the man’s parents suddenly take interest in your daughter and demand that she spend more and more time with them?

I am currently counseling a woman who is facing a custody battle with her son’s biological father. The man, his wife and his parents are all interested in the son, and have therefore filed a petition to deprive the mother of parental authority.

I once counseled a woman who filed kidnapping charges against the biological father of her son. The son after having been given everything he asked from his father wanted to stay with the father.

One of the earliest people I counseled had this problem: She was strict with her daughter especially with regard her studies. But with the biological father, it was all fun and games with the daughter. She has become the “bad guy” in her daughter’s eyes.

It is important that a child grow up knowing and being loved by both parents (even though such parents are separated), but there are complications that you have to consider, as I noted above.

Anonymous said...

I guess you are right Atty. Gerry about your latest issue on AUSF potential problems. I've heard some stories about this from different friends. The mothers were the ones sacrificed to raise their child without the father's financial and emotional support.

However, when the child turned teenager, the father suddenly appeared as if he could buy anything for the child. This child had changed his treatment to his mom when he realized that his father could give anything he wanted.

It seems, most kids nowadays are materialistic and don't realize the hardship of their mother.

Jazmine said...

Based on my own experience about my daughter's surname as she was using her biological father's surname but I had a hardtime afterall when I've met a good man who is willing to marry me and adopt my daughter so he could bring us to UK.

I had a hardtime convincing my daughter's biological father due to his pride in spite of his being irresponsible and has never been supported us even a single centavo.

You know what I did, I had to pay the biological father just to sign the paper.

My present husband who's a foreigner is really a good man when he adopted my daughter and treat like his very own daughter.

Rosing said...

Hello po Atty. Galacio,nag-apply po ako for an overseas job and then one of the requirements is NSO Marriage Certificate.

Ang aking situation po ay separated na dahil may iba na pong asawa ang mister ko at nagsasama na sila. Ayaw ko na din pong isama pa ang pangalan nang mister ko sa mga legal documents ko whatever happens dahil pinakasalan niya na ang kabit niya.

Ano po ba ang dapat kong gawin para hindi na i-honor na asawa ko pa siya sa kabila nang NSO Marriage Cert na hinihingi nang inaapplyn ko.

Please help me po dahil nahihirapan ako sa kaiisip.

Maraming salamat po, Atty.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Rosing,

Even if your husband has gotten married a second time, you are still legally married to him. You should therefore file a petition for declaration of nullity of your marriage.

Rowena said...

Dear Atty. Galacio:

Gusto ko lang po sana malaman kung sakali po ba na humingi ako nang Marriage Certificate kung saan kinasal ang asawa ko, bibigyan po ba nila ako? Ako po ang tunay na asawa at napatunayan kong kinasal na pala siya munisipyo nang Tarlac,maaari po ba nila ako bigyan nang kopya na gagamitin ko sa PAO na isa sa ebidensya po.

Naisip ko pong kayo na muna ang tanungin ko sa bagay na ito para hindi po masayang ang pagpunta ko sa Tarlac dahil hirap din naman po ako sa buhay.

Madami pa po kasing kailangan na ebidensya at nakakahiya na po sa PAO kung sila pa dahil libre na nga ang attorney.

Pumunta na po ako sa SSS, pero wala daw po pala silang karapatan maglabas nang dokumento nang isang member kung sinuman ang beneficiaries nito.

Gusto ko man pilitin na lang na asawa ko ang mag-file nang annulment dahil nasa abroad na po siya at mas mapera at maligaya na sa bago niyang asawa ngunit sabi sa PAO ay huwag na lang daw po at baka ma-dismiss ang kaso kung magkakaroon pa kami nang agreement nang asawa ko na wala naman pong pakiaalam sa aming mag-iina.

Masakit na po ang ulo ko sa kaiisip kung ano pang evidences ang gagamitin ko para lang mas maging matibay na mapawalang bisa na po ang kasal namin.

Maraming salamat po Atty, at may nagsabi po kasi sa akin na pumunta ako sa site na 'to para masagot ang aking katanungan.

Marami pong salamat.

Rowena said...

Ang ibig ko pong sabihin ay marriage certificate nilang mag-asawa sa Tarlac na kung saan po sila kinasal.

Pasensya na po para lang malinaw.

Thank you po, Atty.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Rowena,

You can get a CENOMAR (Certificate of No Marriage) from the NSO here in Metro Manila. Since your husband is married to you and the other woman, the NSO will not issue a CENOMAR. Instead the NSO will issue a certification that there are two marriage certificates on file. This is assuming of course that the second marriage had the proper documents filed with the LCR in Tarlac and then forwarded to the NSO.

Anonymous said...

Atty., paano po bang dapat gawin kung itinigil na nang tatay nang anak ko ang pagsuporta sa kanyang pag-aaral dahil hindi nagustuhan nang tatay ang mga poor grades niya.

Is this enough reason para hindi i-stop niya ang suporta sa bata?

Pwede po ba akong mag-demand to support the kid whether the kid has poor grades?

Salamat po.

Anonymous said...

Atty Galacio,

I would like to ask if I could file a petition for nullity of marriage since my child and I was abandoned by my ex-husband 8 years ago and he was married before we were married in civil marriage. What is the process for petition? Thanks!

Confused

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Whether your child has good grades or bad grades, your husband is obligated to support him.

Please read my Legal Updates post “Support for abandoned woman and family” or download from my website www.familymatters.org.ph the free PDF newsletter Issue no. 004 July 31, 2008 "Financial support for abandoned woman and her children"

Essentially, through a Protection Order, the court will order your husband and his employer to set aside a certain percentage of his salary to be remitted directly to you and your children on a monthly basis. If your husband and/or his employer fail to do so, they can be charged with contempt of court.

The amount of support is balanced between the necessities of the person asking for support and the financial capability of the person from whom support is being asked.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

First of all, you have to apply with the NSO for a CENOMAR (Certificate of No Marriage). Since as you said, your husband was already married before you got married, the NSO will issue a certification instead that there are two marriage certificates on its files.

After determining that your husband was indeed married before your own marriage, you can file a petition to have your marriage declared bigamous and void. Please read Rule on Declaration of Absolute Nullity of Void Marriages and Annulment of Voidable Marriages A. M. No. 02-11-10-SC.

Please also read my Legal Updates post titled “If husband and wife have not seen each other for more than seven years, does it mean that their marriage is already void?” You can also download my free PDF newsletter Issue no. 003 July 16, 2008 on this topic.

For free legal assistance, please contact the DOJ Action Center. The DOJAC acts on complaints, requests for assistance and legal queries of walk-in clients of the DOJ. For legal assistance please visit the Department of Justice Action Center (DOJAC) Main Office, Ground Floor, Multi-Purpose Building, Padre Faura Street, Ermita, Manila; Telephone no: 523-84-81; Email Address: dojac@doj.gov.ph or visit any Regional/Provincial/City Prosecution Offices in your town or city.

Anonymous said...

jst wanna ask, is the marriage void if there's no record in nso or civil registrar? tnx a lot

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The lack or absence of a marriage certificate (or contract) in the files of the NSO or LCR does not make a marriage null and void. The marriage certificate or contract is NOT an essential or formal requisite for the validity of a marriage under the Family Code.

The marriage certificate is a powerful documentary evidence of the existence of a marriage.HOWEVER, the existence or validity of a marriage can be proven by other evidence - the marriage license, the testimony of the officiating minister and the witnesses, wedding pictures, etc.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty:

My husband and I, who are both Filipinos, got married in 1999. After 8 years of marriage, I finally decided to end the relationship because of his drug addiction, physical and mental abuses. Since day 1 of our marriage, he doesn't have a job and I was the one who earn a living for us. We don't have any kids.

Right now, I am working in Africa. I met an African guy whom I want to marry. Is it possible to file a divorce in Africa and serve the divorce papers to my husband in the Philippines? Or do I need to file for an annulment before I got married to my African bf. We plan to get married here in Africa.

Thank you for your guidance.

- Samantha

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty:
My parents-in-law are separated for almost 25 years now.but no legal separation filed.pero kahit hirap, he continued supporting his kids until they have their own family, too.pero ang problema po, when my father-in-law was retiring from his job, hinabol po ng mother-in-law ko. nakipaghati po don sa kung anuman ang makukuha nya sa retirement nya. nabigyan naman po, until this year kung san makakakuha na naman ng pension ung father-in-law ko.she is trying to file again for a complaint kasi gusto nya uli na mabigyan ng share don sa pension. it is possible for her na makipaghati o makipagshare?kung kasuhan po ba ang father-in-law ko, makukulong po ba sya. by the way he is living with another woman and have 2 sons.mi laban po ba ang father-in-law ko sa kaso, kasi everytime na mi pera sya saka lang umieksena ang asawa? it is possible to file for annulment pa ba?
Have a gud day po and thanks in advance

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Samantha,

You are a Filipino citizen and so under Article 26 of the Family Code of the Philippines, you are NOT allowed to file or initiate a divorce action. Please read my post “Divorce obtained abroad by a Filipino not recognized here” (look for the link in the sidebar).

You will have to file a petition for declaration of nullity of your marriage here in the Philippines. If and when the court grants that petition, then that is the time you can remarry.

Please also read my post "Biblical grounds for divorce and remarriage" (look for the link in the sidebar).

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Your father should file at the very least a petition for judicial separation of property, and at the same time, he should disinherit the wife. Please read my post “Disinheriting your spouse” (look for the link in the sidebar).

Since your father’s marriage is subsisting (meaning still valid since there has been no declaration of nullity), he can possibly be charged with concubinage.

Anonymous said...

Hi! Good day..
I was married four years ago and we got separated after 2 years of our marriage. I was married in Manila City Hall, I was with the man i got married to and my aunt as witness. Somebody came to us and lead us to the 2nd floor of Manila City Hall. We went through all the seminars and got our marriage license, a Woman acted as the solemnizing officer but when we got the marriage certificate it has a name of a Man as the solemnizing officer,when i asked her who that man is, she said he was her husband but she was the one who signed the paper, the place of marriage written on the certificate was not manila city hall were we got married, i guess it's their house address and the date written was the day before our marriage. we only have one witness, my aunt then they said "sila na bahala sa isa" so i dont know who signed it and it was not signed in front of us. i cannot remember the woman, we dont have pictures as evidence, but i have my aunt to testify. I have an NSO copy of the marriage certificate. Is our marriage valid?
Thanks... I really need some help.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The marriage certificate on file with the NSO is a strong evidence on the validity of your marriage. Look at the certificate if it contains the phrase “Article 34” on it. If the term is there, that means that you were simply asked to sign an affidavit without having had to apply for a marriage license. If it is not true that you have been living in for five consecutive years without legal impediment, then that could be a basis for filing a petition to have your marriage declared null and void.

You should get a certified copy of your marriage certificate and then have a lawyer look at it.For free legal assistance, please contact the DOJ Action Center. The DOJAC acts on complaints, requests for assistance and legal queries of walk-in clients of the DOJ. For legal assistance please visit the Department of Justice Action Center (DOJAC) Main Office, Ground Floor, Multi-Purpose Building, Padre Faura Street, Ermita, Manila; Telephone no: 523-84-81; Email Address: dojac@doj.gov.ph or visit any Regional/Provincial/City Prosecution Offices in your town or city.

Anonymous said...

Hi Atty. Thank you for your time..
I checked the marriage certificate and there's no Article 34 written there. But i found out that only 1 witness signed the certificate. there's just another name and placed a printed name but there is no signature. It was written to Print Name and Sign. so it was really my aunt acted as the witness. According to the law, it was stated that the marriage should be in the presence of not less than two witnesses of legal age. Could this be a basis for application to make the marriage null and void?
Thank you so much..

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The defect in the number of witnesses is in a formal requisite. This does not necessarily make your marriage null and void.

If Article 34 was not used, then you were probably asked to sign an application for a marriage license with the licenses issued pre-dated. You need to check with the Local Civil Registrar of the town or city which issued the marriage license. If the application or the license was forged, then that can be used as a ground for declaring your marriage null and void.

Anonymous said...

Hi Atty. Galacio,
A blessed day to you!

I just got married last May 30, 2009 in Baguio City officiated by a head pastor of a church in Valenzuela City, who is a family friend of my husband. On June 3, 2009, the pastor brought the marriage certificate that we both signed together with the witnesses during the ceremony, to the LCR of Valenzuela and not in the LCR of Baguio where we got married. And i learned that the pastor put "Valenzuela" as the place of our marriage in our marriage certificate together with the name of the church. My question here is, is that valid? is it okay that the pastor file it in LCR of Valenzuela and made it as the place of our marriage instead of baguio? Please help me, i will be sponsoring my husband going to Canada and i don't know if there will be problem with regards to our marriage contract.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Under the NSO rules for solemnizing officers, some religious ministers are restricted to certain areas where they can officiate marriages (depending on the authorization they got from their bishops or head of denomination). If the pastor was not authorized to solemnize marriages outside of Valenzuela, he can be held liable for violating the terms of his license.

As to your marriage itself, as long as the essential requisites of marriage are present, it is valid. If the solemnizing officer did not have any authority, then Article 35 (2) can be claimed. The said article states that a marriage solemnized by any person not legally authorized to perform marriages UNLESS such marriages were contracted with either or both parties believing in good faith that the solemnizing officer had the legal authority to do so.

Please consult other lawyers who may have opinions different from mine.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty.
Good day!My questions is regarding my marriage if it was legal or void,I am 21 yrs old at the time,I am a female but without my parents consent.Conducted by a certain escretary of the mayor but originally signed by the mayor.But the parents consent was forged only.Thus the contract is legal or void?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Between 21 to 25, parental ADVICE is needed, not parental consent. Your marriage is not void on the ground of age or lack of parental consent.

With regards the ceremony conducted by the secretary but with the certificate signed by the mayor, this is a defect in a formal requisite which does not invalidate your marriage.

Please consult other lawyers who might have opinions different from mine.

Anonymous said...

hi sir.im just want to ask for advice and what step will i make.im married to a married man whos wife is in state now.we married in the same judge. the first marriege done june 22 1998.and our marriage january 2001. they are then separated but no annualment .the wife in the state was married now in the state to another man.my husband signed a paper from state but i dnt know what is that. now sir what step will i make they are not making annulment.but then im using now his surname for 9yrs now all my paper PRC SSS AND OTHER DOCUMENT IM USING HIS SURNAME NOW BUT AS I KNOW IM NOT A LEGAL WIFE. WHAT WILL I DO SIR?

workhard said...

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Apostile

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

“the wife in the state was married now in the state to another man.my husband signed a paper from state but i dnt know what is that.”

If the paper signed by your husband was a divorce petition, that does not have any legal effect here in the Philippines. Article 26 of the Family Code prohibits Filipino citizens from obtaining divorce abroad.

Since from the Philippine standpoint, your “husband” is still married, your own marriage is bigamous and void. Even if your “husband” files for declaration of nullity of his first marriage and it is granted by the court, this will not make your own marriage valid.

If the first wife obtained her divorce when she was already a US citizen, then your “husband” can file a petition for recognition of the foreign divorce decree. Please read my post “The right of a divorced Filipino spouse to remarry under Article 26 of the Family Code” (look for the link in the sidebar).

Please consult other lawyers who may have opinions different from mine.

Anonymous said...

hello atty, i really need some legal advice. I was quickly married Dec 1999, wasn't sure of applying marriage license. January 2000 he left me for another woman and after my still birth. Then 2004 i got new bf and planned to get married, one of the requirements here in abroad is a CENOMAR so i got one from the NSO. Eventually we got married Oct 2004 in the Phils. This year when i was getting papers from NSO i just found out that i had a previous marriage not on my direct name.
I'm so confused now, don't know what to do because right now we're planning to move to US plus the fact that we have a legally adopted kid under my husband name. Please i need your advice.
Thank you.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

“This year when i was getting papers from NSO i just found out that i had a previous marriage not on my direct name.”

What do you mean by “not on my direct name?” I will presume that you are saying that there are two marriage certificates under your name in file with the NSO. The existence of the first marriage certificate December 1999 is prima facie (on the surface) evidence of the existence and validity of the marriage. In most quickie marriages done in some city halls, the solemnizing officer and his staff either make the parties sign an Article 34 affidavit (ratification of marital cohabitation) OR a pre-dated marriage license obtained from some unscrupulous Local Civil Registrars.

You need to get certified true copies of all the documents (marriage certificate, marriage license if any, Article 34 affidavit, etc) and ask a lawyer to look at them. If there are problems with the marriage license or Article 34 affidavit, your lawyer can file the necessary petition to have that marriage declared null and void.

You will have problems however with Article 40 of the Family Code. This article provides that even if the marriage is null and void, you cannot take the law into your own hands and declare by yourself that your marriage is void. This is what you did when you got married the second time (October 2004).

The question is, why did the NSO issue a CENOMAR to you in the first place? There are cases where there are delays in the submission of the marriage certificate either by the solemnizing officer or by the LCR. Be that as it may, the existence of the first marriage certificate in the NSO files is a problem for you.

Anonymous said...

Hello again atty. Thank you so much for the advise.
What i mean by " not on my direct name" is my surname was mispelled.
Before i worked here in abroad i applied for my marriage contract in the NSO but no avail that was 2001.
Now i just really want this to settle legally. I don't have any communication on my previous partner since he left me but i heard he already got family.
Please if you know a lawyer that can help me to settle these mess, i would really appreciate.
Once again thank you very much.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Please e-mail me so I can recommend a lawyer to you.

You can also try asking for help from SALIGAN (Sentro ng Alternatibong Lingap Panligal) Manila, G/F Hoffner Building, Social Development Complex, Ateneo de Manila University, Loyola Heights, Quezon City, Philippines; Tel. (632) 426-6001 loc. 4858-4860, Telefax: (632) 426-6124; E-mail: saligan@saligan.org; Website: www.saligan.org

Anonymous said...

I have married last 2003 in a supposed to be called secret marriage in manila city hall.We are both 29 yrs. old and not a resident of manila.It was a less than 5 mins. ceremony in front of a solemnizing officer , no rings,with no witnesses but just signed by his 2 clerks which serve as our witnesses whom we dont know.The solemnizing officer just told us to say we are married in san juan metro manila where infact we are married inside the manila city hall and that was indicated in the marriage certificate.They're the one who register our license to the NSO with a package deal cost of P3500. I asked a secpa and yes our marriage was registered.My question here,is our marriage valid with this kind of ceremony?Is there no expiration with this secret marriage?

Anonymous said...

I have married last 2003 in a supposed to be called secret marriage in manila city hall.We are both 29 yrs. old and not a resident of manila.It was a less than 5 mins. ceremony in front of a solemnizing officer , no rings,with no witnesses but just signed by his 2 clerks which serve as our witnesses whom we dont know.The solemnizing officer just told us to say we are married in san juan metro manila where infact we are married inside the manila city hall and that was indicated in the marriage certificate.They're the one who register our license to the NSO with a package deal cost of P3500. I asked a secpa and yes our marriage was registered.My question here,is our marriage valid with this kind of ceremony?Is there no expiration with this secret marriage?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The Family Code does not prescribe any specific form of a marriage ceremony.

If the marriage is legal, there is no expiration for a secret marriage.

The differences in the places (San Juan and Manila) are only your testimony; what will prevail is what is stated in the marriage certificate on file with the NSO.

Most probably, you did not apply for a marriage license and the solemnizing officer only asked you to sign an Article 34 affidavit. Look for the phrase “Article 34” in the marriage certificate. You can POSSIBLY have the marriage declared null and void if the Article 34 affidavit is not true.

Anonymous said...

atty.curious lang po ako. yong kaibigan ko po nagpaksal sa hapon sa japan. yong kasal po nila hindi niya po nireport sa phil.embassy at hindi po siya nagpaammend ng passport. Now, naghiwalay na po sila at since hindi naman po nireport yong kasal hindi niya rin po report yong divorce sa embahada. Ngayon po, magppkasal po ulit sana sa isang hapon kaya kumuha po ng cenomar sa NSO at single po nakalgay don. Nong pag-aaply po sa embassy, nakita po sa record nila na kumuha na dati ng lccm yong kaibigan ko. Ang gusto nila magreport ng kasal pagkatapos mag submit ng report of divorce saka lang po makakakuha ulit ng lccm. ang tanong po:

1.ganito po ba talaga ang dapat gawin?mandatory po ba talaga na magreport kasi nga sa atin wala naman pong divorce. Meron po bang article na nagsasaad na hindi na dapat dumaan sa ganitong proseso para lang makakuha ulit ng lccm.?

2. kong sa pilipinas nalang po magpapakasal, since lahat po ng papers niya ay single, hindi po ba magiging komplekado?

salamat po sa kasagutan.

Margaret said...

Hello Atty. Gelacio, am back. I've already filed Nulity of Marriage through the assistance of PAO. Am now in the process of waiting for the response of the summons delivered to my ex-husband. Then after 2 months of waiting, finally I've received a Subpoena today that I must report with the date given.

My question is: What does it means when I have received the Subpoena?

Thank you, Atty Gelacio.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Margaret,

Has the case been filed with the court already? The summons is an order for your husband to file his Answer. The subpoena you receive is most probably an order for the pre-trial conference. You should always consult your PAO lawyer on any question about your petition.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The Family Code provides for essential and formal requisites for a marriage to be valid. The reporting or recording of the marriage documents with the embassy is NOT a requisite. Meaning, your friend’s first marriage is valid despite the lack of reporting with the embassy or the lack of copy with the NSO.

The divorce on the other hand is NOT valid because of Article 26 of the Family Code and Article 15 of the New Civil Code of the Philippines.

The Philippine embassy implements the laws of the country. If your friend wants to question these policies, she should file a complaint first with the DFA and then with the courts.

Your friend will place herself in a lot of legal complications if she gets married again.

Craig said...

I am married to a Filipina. I live in America and she lives in the Philippines. We have been separated since shortly after our wedding. At this time she is cohabitating with another man, so I do not support her financially any more. She has recently claimed that she can sue me for spousal support. If she does that, am I in any legal danger in traveling to the Philippines?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Craig,

Please read my post “Support for abandoned woman and family” and my RA 9262 “Anti-Violence Against Women and their Children Act of 2004” (look for the links in the sidebar. If she files a petition for a Protection Order for financial support, the court can issue a TPO (Temporary Protection Order) on an ex-parte basis. This means, even if you are not present during the hearings, the judge can issue the TPO. For the issuance of a PPO (Permanent Protection Order), however, your presence in court is necessary. A TPO or a PPO is enforceable throughout the whole Philippines.

Violation of the TPO or PPO is considered as contempt of court for which you can be imprisoned.

If your wife files a criminal case under RA 9262, for example, psychological violence with a penalty of six years minimum to a maximum of twelve years, the fiscal’s office (similar to the DA in the States), is required to conduct a preliminary investigation where you will be notified of the hearings and be allowed to present your counter-affidavit. However, if your wife gives a “fake” address for you here in the Philippines and the fiscal’s subpoenas are returned to him, the fiscal can resolve the criminal complaint even if you are not able to present your evidence. (You can of course when charged in court ask for a reinvestigation.)

If your wife files an economic abuse case under RA 9262, a preliminary investigation is not required since the penalty is four years imprisonment.

Your wife under RA 9262 can also file a civil case for damages against you (a petition for TPO or PPO can be part of this civil case).

Anonymous said...

Hello. I'm just a student and I have to report to our class about the impediment number 8 in Article 38 in the Family code of the Philippines. Can you please help me in understanding the meaning of Article 38 sub 8? Thanks so much.

Anonymous said...

Hello. I'm just a student and I have to report to our class about the impediment number 8 in Article 38 in the Family code of the Philippines. Can you please help me in understanding the meaning of Article 38 sub 8? Thanks so much.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

For example, Jose and Maria, husband and wife, adopted Rene in 2004. Then in 2006, Jose and Michelle also adopted Michelle. Article 38, paragraph (8) FC prohibits Rene and Michelle from later on getting married.

Anonymous said...

A Filipino-Canadian couple formerly Filipino Citizens, married in the Philippines wanted to register the child after birth under their legal name in the birth certificate in the Philippines. The biological parent of the child is close-relative of the Fil-Canadian wife. The child was born at home by "hilot" and because the biological parents can no longer afford to support another child (alreay have 4 children)the child was given to the couple. If the legal parents wanted to bring the child to Canada, what is the remedy needed to avoid legal impediment in the Philippines to petition the child. The petition will make the child Canadian Citizen. Does notification be required to DSWD under republic act 9523 in this case?

Anonymous said...

Atty, me & my common law partner have been together for 18 yrs.We got 3 kids the eldest and my youngest is using my surname, while our 2nd child is using his father's surname. We got a fake marriage meaning No records was seen in LCR got a certificate on this & got a CENOMAR as well indicating that no marriage took place under my name. Should my 2nd son using his dads surname be changed? or should i seek or consult a lawyer to handle this case. What should i do, my parents in the states are about to file a petition for me and asking my for my childrens birthcert. However, on my 2nd child birthcert, date of marriage was indicated. What should i do? HELP!

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

You are in a legal mess where there are no easy answers.

One possible remedy for your eldest and youngest kids is LEGITIMATION (please read my posts on legitimation; use the blog search box at the top of this screen). This involves you and your partner getting married legally. After such marriage, you can apply for legitimation of your eldest and youngest kids. Please take note however of the requirements for legitimation.

As to your second son, if you file a petition in court for correcting his birth certificate, you will potentially be exposing you and your partner to a possible criminal case for falsifying certain entries in his birth certificate.

There are companies and individuals which specialize in immigration (their ads are in newspapers like the Bulletin and the Inquirer). You can seek their help.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

You should advise this Filipino-Canadian couple that they should NOT register the child as their own. They will be committing the crime of “simulation of birth” which is publishable under RA 8552 with eight years imprisonment.

They should instead file for adoption. Please read my post "Procedures in adoption under RA 8552" (look for the link in the sidebar).

If this Filipino-Canadian couple has already gotten a birth certificate listing them as parents of that child, they should have that birth certificate cancelled.

Anonymous said...

if your under 21 to 24 of age, and your parents didn't know that you got married is your marriage void? or valid? pls. lemme know atty. i just got married at 24 i will turn 25 next month.. i had another guardian to stand as my prents consent since i do not want my parents to know just yet that im married already.. is it valid? still even if my parents didnt know i was married? if so, they have right to void it just because they dont know? pls. let me know

airz

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty. Galacio:

My Girlfriend and I were living together since year 2004 as husband and wife, we are both 30 years old now with a 10 mos old son. with our intention to get a simple wedding celebration, someone whom we know advised us to execute affidavit of cohabitation to exempt us from securing mariage license for quicker and less expense transaction. BUt when we are about to register the marriage cert, the MCR told us that we are not qualified for exemption (art 34) considering that my gf went in and out of the country for 3 years since 2005 up to 2008 as ofw which prohibits us availing art 34 and not completed 5 straigth years living together within the philippines according to her(MCR). and we were advised to just re apply for regular marriage license. BUt as i read and with my own understanding of the of what ive read about art 34 of the famili code there was no such prohibition stated with regards to our case. Please provide us legal and right information regarding this, thank you and more power!!!!

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

airz,

Between 18 to 21, parental consent is necessary for marriage. From 21 (and one day) up to 25, only parental ADVICE is needed for marriage. If parental advice is absent or negative, the Family Code requires a three month waiting period before a license is issued.

The right of parents to have a marriage annulled applies only when the guy (or girl) was between 18 to 21. Between 18 to 21, if a person got married without parental consent, the marriage is voidable (meaning, valid until annulled). The parent/s who did not give consent can have the marriage annulled before the guy (or the girl) reaches 21. Upon reaching 21, the guy (or the girl) has five years within which to file for annulment. Beyond this period, the marriage can no longer be annulled on the basis of lack of parental consent.

Please consult other lawyers who may have opinions different from mine or who may be able to suggest alternative courses of actions.

Unknown said...

I want to renew my Philippine passport in the consulate in Dubai where I live. I also want to change my surname due to marriage at the same time. My husband is Serbian and the marriage certificate was issued from Serbia. It was stamped with the Apostille for international use, but unfortunately the Philippines does not recognize this. What do I need to do to get my marriage certificate acceptable to Philippine authorities?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

“we are about to register the marriage cert”

Do you mean to say that you have already gotten married using the Article 34 affidavit?

While Article 34 of the Family Code does not state it expressly, the requirement is that the five years must be continuous or straight. The MCR is therefore correct.

It is much better that you get married using a marriage license instead of an Article 34 affidavit. Several embassies here in the Philippines like the US, Canada, Australia, etc are very strict about Article 34 marriages. Several people have e-mailed me because their petitions for immigration have been denied. These embassies required proofs (like photos, receipts, affidavits of witnesses, etc) that indeed the couple lived in as husband and wife for five consecutive years.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Dayanghirang,

The Family Code follows what is called the “lex loci celebrationis” rule, meaning, if the marriage is valid in the place where it is celebrated, then it is recognized as valid in the Philippines (with certain exceptions, for example, bigamous or incestuous marriages). Please clarify: Why did the consulate in Dubai refuse to recognize your marriage to this Serbian guy?

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty Galacio,

My wife recently delivered our first child last Oct 2, 2009, we havnt yet registered our son's birth certificate because someone from the local civil registrar in our town told us that our son is considered illegitimate bacause my wife got pregnant prior to our marriage. we only gotten married last April 2009, my wife then was alerady 3 mos pregnant. Is our child really considered illegitimate even if we have already gotten married before his delivery? Thank you very much in anticipation of your immediate response sir, Good luck and more power!

JOnes,

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty. Galacio,

I'm committed with a man whose I know from the start has been legally married but they are not living since 2007, which they are separated for two years already. Though we've decided to be committed last 2008 and we are planning to get married probably next year. We would just like to ask for legal advice.

Here are some facts / backgrounds regarding his previous marriage:
1. The ceremony was celebrated at the municipal hall without a marriage license as the city mayor told that he can officiate at that day. As the city mayor is a friend of the man's father.
2. Only the woman has documents but the man wasn't able to provide documents on the day of marriage(i.e. birth certificate).
3. They have been married in the church again and provided having a marriage certificate but not authenticated by NSO.
4. When the record was checked in NSO there was no record appeared or found.
5. They just together as husband and wife for less than a year. The woman left him after a month of giving birth.
6. The man asked the his ex-wife to sign a blotter or agreement that right after she leave the house they are not committed and no obligation with each other anymore, which was notarized.
7. The child was born normal and as the ob-gyne advised the child was in full term but as the man's knowledge it is not full term.
8. His estranged mother-in-law told him on the cellphone which the child is not his.

Based on the facts above, is the marriage valid? Given that they have been together as husband and wife for less than a year. Also, there's an information from the woman's party that the child is not his.

Fyi, the man asked the woman to undergo for a DNA test just to prove that the child is really her daughter. But the ex-wife was not seen or heard from that the day he asked her for the test.

I really appreciate for your comments and advise on this matter.

Thank you and more power

Anonymous said...

hello attorney,

airz here.. thank you so much.. I am already 24 years old and we got married already we had our license issued however somebody stand in my behalf as my parents for parental advise bec. im 24 goin 25 next month which is november.. the one who stand as my prent for parental advice is not my mom but the mom of my husband now.. just so the city health will issue our married license and we will get married secretly, for i will be leaving soon and i want my husband to go with me migrating in the US now my concern is what if my parents as a 24 year old is concerned that parents advice should be issued if person is 21 to 25 (and day one) and i am 24.. if my parent will find out that i a got married without their good advice do they have a soul right to void such marriage bec. they have not known about it and i am still 24 my husband is 33? thank you attorney..

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

1. “The ceremony was celebrated at the municipal hall without a marriage license as the city mayor told that he can officiate at that day. “

The lack of a marriage license makes the marriage void. Even if the marriage is void, however, your partner cannot take the law into his own hands and declare by himself that the marriage is void. Under Article 40 of the Family Code he must file a petition to have the marriage declared as void.
Please take note of my next comment.

2. ”They have been married in the church again and provided having a marriage certificate but not authenticated by NSO.”

”When the record was checked in NSO there was no record appeared or found.”


If during this church wedding, there was already a valid marriage license, then such a marriage is valid. Please take note that under the Family Code, the marriage contract or certificate is NOT an essential or formal requisite of marriage. Even if there are no records of that marriage certificate, the validity of the marriage can still be proven by other evidences.

3. Assuming that the church wedding was valid, then the child is considered legitimate since it was born during the marriage. Also, please take note of Article 167 of the Family Code which state: “The child shall be considered legitimate although the mother may have declared against its legitimacy or may have been sentenced as an adulteress.” The mother-in-law’s claim that the child is not that of the man (your committed partner) is not acceptable evidence in court.

4. ”The man asked the his ex-wife to sign a blotter or agreement that right after she leave the house they are not committed and no obligation with each other anymore, which was notarized.”

This kind of agreement is illegal, immoral and has no legal effect. The notary public who notarized this agreement can be disbarred or suspended by the Supreme Court from the practice of law. Please read my post “Can a husband and wife in a notarized document declare that they are free to marry other persons and they will not file charges against each other?” (look for the link in the sidebar)

5. Please consult other lawyers who may have opinions different from mine or who may be able to suggest alternative courses of actions.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

JOnes,

“Is our child really considered illegitimate even if we have already gotten married before his delivery?”

Article 165 of the Family Code defines an illegitimate child as someone “conceived and born outside a valid marriage.” Take note of the word “AND.”

Article 164 FC states that “children conceived or born during the marriage of the parents are legitimate”. Please take note of the word “OR”.

It is clear from Art. 164 that since your son was born during your marriage, he is legitimate.

If the LCR people want proof of what I said, show them page 330 of "The Family Code of the Philippines Annotated" by Dean Rufus Rodriguez. It says that "a child who is conceived before the marriage but born during the marriage is legitimate."

If the LCR in your place gives you a hard time, you can go directly to the Legal Department of the National Statistics Office to complain.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty. Galacio,

Could I ask my husband for financial support? I'm living with him and my kids here in the u.a.e. Im currently unemployed and he's refusing to give me financial assistance. Please help

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Please read my post “Support for abandoned woman and family” (look for the link in the sidebar).

The problem however is that the parties concerned (you, your husband, your kids) are all in UAE, outside the jurisdiction of Philippine courts. You can perhaps try asking for support under UAE law. In any case, ask for help from the Philippine embassy or consulate there.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Airz,

I already answered your question as of October 9 above.

Anyway, the right of parents to petition the court to have the marriage annulled for lack of consent is provided under Article 47 of the Family Code. But this right of parents applies only to their children who got married between ages 18 to 21. You got married when you were already 24. To be clear, therefor, your parents do not have the right to have your marriage annulled.

Anonymous said...

i have a question... is it true that the "kasal sa judge" will be valid just for a year? is it true that it's easier to get an annulment for that?

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

No, it is not true that "kasal sa judge" will be valid just for a year.

No, it is not true that it's easier to get an annulment for the reason "kasal sa judge".

The person who told you these things or any source on the Internet like chat rooms where you got these ideas is absolutely wrong. You will not be able to find any provision of the Family Code or a Supreme Court decision which says these things.

Anonymous said...

In addition for my previous blog, to where I am still married to my alien husband, just incase he already divorce me in the US, will I be able to marry in some other countries or here in philippines even I didn't file yet the petition for recognition of the foreign divorce decree? thanks.

Anonymous said...

Hello Atty. Galacio, I would like to know if whats the best thing to file a petition for declaratory relief or for a petition for recognition of the foreign divorce decree? what's suited for the one who wishes to remarry, and what's the easy way? Thanks.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The 1997 Rules of Civil Procedure expressly provides“declaratory relief” in Rule 63. A petition for declaratory relief is similar to asking the court to issue an opinion on a matter in controversy. The court stops right there, i.e. giving its opinion on the question submitted by the petitioner. On the other hand, there is no specific rule for a petition for recognition of the foreign divorce decree.

Please read my post on Article 26 of the Family Code and the right of a divorced Filipino; look for the link in the sidebar. While the Supreme Court ruled in the Orbecido case that a petition for declaratory relief was the proper procedure in that case, a petition for recognition of the foreign divorce decree could also have been filed instead. Our Regional Trial Courts have a general jurisdiction over matters incapable of pecuniary estimation and our Family Courts (specially-designated branches of the RTC) have primary jurisdiction over matters concerning marriage, children, etc. Moreover, with this kind of petition, the court will order the annotation of the decree of recognition in the marriage certificate in the NSO files.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

[1] Recognition of foreign divorce decree – our Family Courts are overloaded with cases especially in Metro Manila; it will take at least a year for the process to be completed. As to the costs, professional fees vary from lawyer to lawyer.

[2] As to financial support of your son: this will be taken up in the divorce proceedings.

[3] If you get married without your foreign divorce decree being recognized by Philippine courts, you can be criminally charged with bigamy.

Anonymous said...

Good day. My boyfriend and his family's US petition are in progress. From what we know, he has to stay single until their petition is granted. I'm 31 and he's 28 and we want to start our own family soon. Can we have civil marriage and not file the marriage certificate to the NSO as to not change his single status? Will this not create any problem with his petition? Thanks.

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

The NSO requires that the marriage documents be submitted to the Local Civil Registrar fifteen days after the wedding. Otherwise, the solemnizing officer must explain in a notarized affidavit as to the reason for the delay.

vina said...
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vina said...

Hi Atty. G. T. Galacio

I am a filipina, working abroad, married, when i worked abroad i dont used married. me and my ex was separated since 2006, we had mutual agreement, one of us can remarry with out any problem, and I know is not valid and acceptable to Philippine law. we got married sept 15, 1998, after years of married, i found out he used different name on our marriage certificate, the name that he used is not registered at the nso, even though that name he use for marriage, he used it since grade one. the name that is registered at the nso he dont used it since, he used another name insted. he got married tru vowing(Jehovah's witnesses way) and have baby according to the news...
I have a boy friend a canadian citizen, we would like to get married here in the country were we are now, do i need to supply a divorce papers? can i get marry without divorce papers? if so, where going to initiate in court or philippine embassy? we are planning after marriage here, we go back to philippine and file petition to nullify my marriage, please give me an advice for this attorney, i am confused and lost.
thank you and more power

Vina

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Vina,

Your marriage is valid and subsisting despite your separation from your husband and his second “marriage” through the JW. If you get married again, you can be charged criminally with bigamy. Bigamy is a public crime which means that anyone can file the case against you. Legally, you will need to have your marriage declared null and void before you get married again.

Anonymous said...

If we got married in Philippine consulate, is the consulate considered to be the civil registry where we should submit the RTC decision .

WE WERE MARRIED IN DUBAI AND NOW GOT THE DECISION FROM RTC THAT WE ARE ANNULED..NOW GOIN BACK TO DUBAI. DO I STILL NEED TO GIVE COPY OF ANNULMENT decision TO OWWA OR CONSULATE IN DUBAI??WHEN WILL I GET A NEW SINGLENESS AFTER I GIVE THE RESULT OF ANNULMENT TO NSO AND OWWA?,does paper need to be authenticated by dfa??
.THANKS IN ADVANCE..–ricky

Anonymous said...

basically to add to the topic, AFTER RTC GIVES DECREE OF ANNULMENT, ARE THEY THE ONE TO REGISTER IT TO NSO,CIVIL REGISTRAR OR WOULD I GO TO THOSE AGENCIES AND APPLY?

WE GOTM ARRIED IN DUBAI, IS THE CONSUALTE CONSIDERED THE CIVIL REGISTRAR SINCE WE WERE MARRIED THERE AND ANNULLED IN pHILS, DO THE CONSULATE NEED AN AUTHENTICATED BY THE DFA, COPY OF THE DECREE OF ANNULMENT?--THANKS A LOT !!!-ricky

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Ricky,

I already answered your e-mail.

Anonymous said...

hello po u, ask ko lang po kasi po ng kumuha ako ng CENOMAR nakalgay po n I was married with my ex BF since natatndaan ko po, nagbayad po kami ng NON Appearance for civil wedding ... Pero ng magapply po kami ng CENOMAR year 2005 wala po lumbas sa CENOMAR. Now po kasi may Bf po ako at di po niy alam yun , and were planning to get married in church ... kaso ng magapply po ako sa CENOMAR nakaregister na po name ng ex ko na married po ako sa knya ... eh may asawa n ren po siya at kasal at may anak ... ano po gagawin ko , paki help naman po ako...

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

Since there is an existing marriage certificate in your name on file with the NSO, you cannot get married again unless the marriage is declared null and void.

If you get married again without obtaining a decree of nullity from the court, you can possibly be charged with bigamy. Bigamy is a public crime which means that ANYONE with knowledge of the facts can file the case against you.

Anonymous said...

Anu po gagawin ko Atty... Pwede ko ho ba kasuhan yung ex bf ko, since nalaman ko po na kinasal na siya sa iba at may anak. kaso po ndi ko na po alam kung san siya naktira... ndi po kasi nagkaanak kay hiniwalyan niya po ako... nakaregister po ksal namin ... alam ko po illegal yun kasi non appearance panu po kaya nangyayari yun maregister kahit ndi po nagappear sa cour ... pwede po ba yun maannul... anu po kailangan gawin para annul po ba yun...

Atty. Gerry T. Galacio said...

[1] As to the cases you can file against your ex-bf/husband, please read my RA 9262 “Anti-Violence Against Women and Their Children Act of 2004” posts (look for the links in the sidebar). Please also contact the government offices and agencies (NBI, PNO, etc) I listed in the sidebar.

[2] Even if your marriage is void, you cannot take the law into your own hands and declare by yourself that your marriage is void. Under Article 40 of the Family Code you are required to file a petition to have your marriage declared as void.

Anonymous said...

Dear Atty. Galacio,

This is regarding my sister's marriage. She's been married for 3 years now and have 2 daughters (2 years old and 6 months old). She was a dedicated housewife and mother. Her husband had an affair with his colleague a year ago. My sister is very kind and patient. She had given her husband enough time to change but he didn't until such time that my sister gave up. She left him and went back to our home with the kids. She have her husband's atm (for company payroll) for their financial support but a month ago her husband filed a resignation without her knowledge. She was just informed by the company HR that her husband is no longer working in that company. What will be the best thing she can do to obliged her husband for financial support? she was unemployed and depends on my parents for her expenses. The mistress has been introduced to her in-laws according to her bilas. Can she file a case against him? what about his financial obligation to her and to their daughters? please advise us. thank you and more power! - kriz

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